Pregnancy after Miscarriage or Loss June 2010

[Tegam]

Dory - I'm so done LOL. I'm so uncomfortable I'm constantly on the verge of tears. I so hope this baby comes a bit early.

sorry you just sound so like a heavily pregnant women!

[ashie]

twin sister- i went to the chemist yesterday got some ural and some cream for itching on outside, feeling 100% better today which is wonderful!

i am eagerly waiting for 5.30/6pm got more hcg level results and hoping their great numbers, i had a 6 day gap between bloods so should of gone up a bit hopefully! last results were 760 that was at 4w5days, had bloods taken on friday which was 5w4days. i am so hoping for some great numbers so nervous about it, also have u/s on friday yay! cant wait to see how little one is going and to see a heart beat!

[angelfish]

ashie glad to hear that you got that problem taken care off and good luck with the bloods

afm i have relized that i am on this journey wihtout a partner but i know that i am strong enough to do it without him. He baled on his ex wife what would make me any different. I kinda of laugh at myself i was worried the other day when i had no ms for a night well she roared her ugly head yesterday and today all day yesterday.

[ashie]

angelfish- glad to hear your ms appeared again lol, i hope the path you pick will be the right one for you hunxxx

well got my hcg levels, at 4w5days 760, then 6 days later 5w4days they were 9550! i couldnt believe it they more than doubled lol, nice and high ( explains the ms lol) im over the moon! this little bubba is sticking, i've defently passed the weeks i usually m/c i am feeling more confident now! cant wait til feb i am so eager to go through this journey for the last time!

[India's Mum]

Ashie - Great rise in the levels. It's looking very positive for a sticky bubba this time.

Angelfish - With all of your recent posts it did seem as though you were unsupported by your partner. It's time for you to focus on yourself and your baby and do whatever you need to do take care of yourself and your little one. My MS is a bit up and down. It's been better this week but there has still been moments when I have had to go back to the couch and lie down for a while.

Possum - How are you doing sweetie? Its good to see you feeling positive about future baby which I am sure will be with you soon. MillyD and Iona, if you are lurking out there please know that I am still thinking of you and wishing you all the best for now and for your future plans.

AFM - I have my first OB appointment today. It's making me quite nervous as I don't know if they can hear a heartbeat at this point and if he tries and can't find one I don't know how I will cope.

[Tegam]

Thinking of you Sammy, im sure all will go well!

[ashie]

good luck sammy, im sure everything will be great!

afm- the wind pain! i always get wind pain never had it with other pregnancys, and its driving me loopy, cause i keep thinking will i need to let wind go or will i have to go to the loo soon lmao! and my nipples this morning are sensitive! i've notice a teeny growth spurt with my bbs yay! i gave in last night and had a m/s tablet, i had not eaten all day was still sick and i was hungry i had to of eaten once so well worth the use lol, hoping today m/s will be good for me lol.

[timeforafamily]

I'm sorry to enter this forum right now with me feeling like this. I'd decided to keep away and just let time pass and pretend to have a pregnancy without freaking out.

I'm so down and worried. Yesterday had the slightest bit of spotting and today a tiny bit more. Last night was AF type of feeling in lower abdomen.

The scariest part of all this is my mood. Yesterday at some time it dropped significantly, and I just can't pick myself up. Tried all the it's quite normal to have a bit of spotting....bla bla bla. You've just worked too hard over the last week, now you are catching up on some rest and your mind is recovering etc etc.

I just feel the worst is happening. I've booked mysef in for blood test tomorrow morning, to attempt for some reassurance.
It's just my mood. It's like my happy hormones just dropped so bad yesterday, and don't want to come back until they are good and ready.

The best hope I can give myself for right now is maybe both embryos had implanted and one has failed, and is causing all this.

I'm sorry if it's so innappropriate to share all this. Balling my eyes out at the moment.

[ashie]

aww hun i hope everything will be ok, i had break through bleeding with my second it scared the hell out of me, i had a gush of brown blood everywhere, now he's a healthy happy one year old. best getting hcg levels checked i did only last friday cause of certain pain i was having but everything was normal, i really hope its the same for you xxx

[timeforafamily]

tthanks Ashie

[milly5]

Hi ladies,
I know I'm a bit late with this, (computer dramas again) but I just wanted to say to Possum and Millyd that I am so sorry for your losses. I am thinking of you both and hope that you are receiving lots of support right now.

[India's Mum]

Timeforafamily - Sweetie you poor thing. It's natural to feel this bad when something you want so dearly seems so problematic. Just try taking one day at a time. Many of us have been where you were with spotting and cramping and we are still here. I had some spotting early on and they think it is because there might have been more than one embryo and it failed so I think it is very likely something similar may have happened to you.

Well, I saw the OB. He didn't try to hear a heartbeat but he seemed pretty confident that things were ok. I have a scan in two weeks so I will have to wait till then to find out how bubs is doing. I told him how my scans gave a due date 10 days apart and he said that could just come down to measuring a baby at a slightly different angle to someone else so he had a feel and said he thought I was between 10 and a 11 weeks. Poor DH, my OB recommended no sex till after 16 weeks. Bet he wishes he hadn't said he was too tired last Monday.

[Tegam]

I'm sorry to enter this forum right now with me feeling like this. I'd decided to keep away and just let time pass and pretend to have a pregnancy without freaking out.

I'm so down and worried. Yesterday had the slightest bit of spotting and today a tiny bit more. Last night was AF type of feeling in lower abdomen.

The scariest part of all this is my mood. Yesterday at some time it dropped significantly, and I just can't pick myself up. Tried all the it's quite normal to have a bit of spotting....bla bla bla. You've just worked too hard over the last week, now you are catching up on some rest and your mind is recovering etc etc.

I just feel the worst is happening. I've booked mysef in for blood test tomorrow morning, to attempt for some reassurance.
It's just my mood. It's like my happy hormones just dropped so bad yesterday, and don't want to come back until they are good and ready.

The best hope I can give myself for right now is maybe both embryos had implanted and one has failed, and is causing all this.

I'm sorry if it's so innappropriate to share all this. Balling my eyes out at the moment.

Oh Hun, i found myself in here saying the same thing a few weeks ago. We think we are ok and then we arent! Thats what this place is for and everyone has been lovely to me. I hope we can support you through this time. Stay sticky babies!

Timeforafamily - Sweetie you poor thing. It's natural to feel this bad when something you want so dearly seems so problematic. Just try taking one day at a time. Many of us have been where you were with spotting and cramping and we are still here. I had some spotting early on and they think it is because there might have been more than one embryo and it failed so I think it is very likely something similar may have happened to you.

Well, I saw the OB. He didn't try to hear a heartbeat but he seemed pretty confident that things were ok. I have a scan in two weeks so I will have to wait till then to find out how bubs is doing. I told him how my scans gave a due date 10 days apart and he said that could just come down to measuring a baby at a slightly different angle to someone else so he had a feel and said he thought I was between 10 and a 11 weeks. Poor DH, my OB recommended no sex till after 16 weeks. Bet he wishes he hadn't said he was too tired last Monday.

Hi Sammy, glad the OB appointment went well, im not suprised that he didnt try to get a HB. Its very unlikely and would probably have just stressed you out! 2 more weeks to wait seems like a long time but it will go quickly!

[luna moth]

Hey ladies... I'm still around. Just SO tired I can barely contribute, but I'm definitely still here! Love to all, hope you are all doing well.

[timeforafamily]

Thanks Tegam and SammyP. Needed that.

SammyP – Hope you get well distracted for the next 2 weeks waiting for your u/s.

Ashie – Wow some great figures on the HCG 9550.


DH rang my GP for me and had a chat with him. They were right on target for support today. Rang the clinic and they will do HCG levels in the morning. The spotting has settled and my brief but massive depressive attack that lasted a whole 24 hours has now lifted.

[angelfish]

sammyp i hope the two weeks fly by for you

timeforafamily- i wish you the best of luck.

AFM m/s has been gone most of the day today which once again has had me worried once again. I wish this worry would go away i have to wait till the end of the month to get another scan. what makes it hard is i just got over having a missed m/c i know that i am entering my 9th week and m/s can go down from what i have been told. I just can't wait for feb

[ric]

Hi Angelfish - Just read you post. Dear dont worry, think about positive things. Don't be worried or scared, My Morning sickness- what little bit i had in first few weeks, eased-up by the end of 7th week and i went crazy as well, but it was all good, then i went for my u/s at 8 weeks and saw the bub and HB...I did mentioned this to my GP, she just said, its allright usually m/s start to ease-out for alot of people by 8-9th week, if you dont have any symptoms, its doesnt mean that something is wrong - just feel good and enjoy the moment.
why dont you ask your GP or Doc to refer your for another u/s before end of month, just for your peace of mind. I am sure she will refer you.
Take care and alots of hugs and babydust sending your way.
Ric

[KitFaerie]

Hi everyone!

Dory: Was checking up on you on the other thread, glad everything was ok with your ob appointment! So happy your over 28 weeks!

Angelfish: Ahh the MS dilemma! At about 8-9 weeks for me it stopped being day and night constant and settled into ok in the mornings and hell in the afternoon/evenings, with a couple of good days a weekd. The first morning I woke up and felt ok, I got out of bed and was smiley and bouncy, then realised I didn't feel sick and cried the rest of the morning until I threw up in the afternoon. My doc also said lots of ppl start to lose it 8-9 weeks.

Audax: Yay your still around! Missed you honey, we'll be here when you feel up to it, give that belly some love!

SammyP: I hope the 2 weeks go quick, so glad everythings going well, belly rubs!

Ashie: Awesome numbers, your doing really well!

Timeforafamily: Take deep breaths, more than likely that everything will be ok, something that got me through some early bleeding was knowing that most pregnancies are totally fine, it can be hard to believe, but the odds are your bringing this bubba home.

AFM, everythings going well - I have a distinct little bump now! DH, bless his heart, was patting it and then proudly said ''I did that, with my penis.'' Well done dear, well done. I'm waiting for confirmation of a 16 weeks Ob appointment, and I'm thinking of maybe looking into getting a doula. MS has flared up for a few days, which was really reassuring, but I'm more than happy for it to start to leave on a more permanent basis! I have felt a bit more hungry lately though, wanting to eat food cos it's yummy and not just as a way of avoiding nausea. Is anyone else getting, or remember getting stretching/crampy feelings around this time? I figure it's just cos Tiger's growing, but, still....

Hope everyone is doing well, love!