Pregnancy after Miscarriage or Loss June 2010

[timeforafamily]

I'm sorry to enter this forum right now with me feeling like this. I'd decided to keep away and just let time pass and pretend to have a pregnancy without freaking out.

I'm so down and worried. Yesterday had the slightest bit of spotting and today a tiny bit more. Last night was AF type of feeling in lower abdomen.

The scariest part of all this is my mood. Yesterday at some time it dropped significantly, and I just can't pick myself up. Tried all the it's quite normal to have a bit of spotting....bla bla bla. You've just worked too hard over the last week, now you are catching up on some rest and your mind is recovering etc etc.

I just feel the worst is happening. I've booked mysef in for blood test tomorrow morning, to attempt for some reassurance.
It's just my mood. It's like my happy hormones just dropped so bad yesterday, and don't want to come back until they are good and ready.

The best hope I can give myself for right now is maybe both embryos had implanted and one has failed, and is causing all this.

I'm sorry if it's so innappropriate to share all this. Balling my eyes out at the moment.

[ashie]

aww hun i hope everything will be ok, i had break through bleeding with my second it scared the hell out of me, i had a gush of brown blood everywhere, now he's a healthy happy one year old. best getting hcg levels checked i did only last friday cause of certain pain i was having but everything was normal, i really hope its the same for you xxx

[timeforafamily]

tthanks Ashie

[milly5]

Hi ladies,
I know I'm a bit late with this, (computer dramas again) but I just wanted to say to Possum and Millyd that I am so sorry for your losses. I am thinking of you both and hope that you are receiving lots of support right now.

[India's Mum]

Timeforafamily - Sweetie you poor thing. It's natural to feel this bad when something you want so dearly seems so problematic. Just try taking one day at a time. Many of us have been where you were with spotting and cramping and we are still here. I had some spotting early on and they think it is because there might have been more than one embryo and it failed so I think it is very likely something similar may have happened to you.

Well, I saw the OB. He didn't try to hear a heartbeat but he seemed pretty confident that things were ok. I have a scan in two weeks so I will have to wait till then to find out how bubs is doing. I told him how my scans gave a due date 10 days apart and he said that could just come down to measuring a baby at a slightly different angle to someone else so he had a feel and said he thought I was between 10 and a 11 weeks. Poor DH, my OB recommended no sex till after 16 weeks. Bet he wishes he hadn't said he was too tired last Monday.

[Tegam]

I'm sorry to enter this forum right now with me feeling like this. I'd decided to keep away and just let time pass and pretend to have a pregnancy without freaking out.

I'm so down and worried. Yesterday had the slightest bit of spotting and today a tiny bit more. Last night was AF type of feeling in lower abdomen.

The scariest part of all this is my mood. Yesterday at some time it dropped significantly, and I just can't pick myself up. Tried all the it's quite normal to have a bit of spotting....bla bla bla. You've just worked too hard over the last week, now you are catching up on some rest and your mind is recovering etc etc.

I just feel the worst is happening. I've booked mysef in for blood test tomorrow morning, to attempt for some reassurance.
It's just my mood. It's like my happy hormones just dropped so bad yesterday, and don't want to come back until they are good and ready.

The best hope I can give myself for right now is maybe both embryos had implanted and one has failed, and is causing all this.

I'm sorry if it's so innappropriate to share all this. Balling my eyes out at the moment.

Oh Hun, i found myself in here saying the same thing a few weeks ago. We think we are ok and then we arent! Thats what this place is for and everyone has been lovely to me. I hope we can support you through this time. Stay sticky babies!

Timeforafamily - Sweetie you poor thing. It's natural to feel this bad when something you want so dearly seems so problematic. Just try taking one day at a time. Many of us have been where you were with spotting and cramping and we are still here. I had some spotting early on and they think it is because there might have been more than one embryo and it failed so I think it is very likely something similar may have happened to you.

Well, I saw the OB. He didn't try to hear a heartbeat but he seemed pretty confident that things were ok. I have a scan in two weeks so I will have to wait till then to find out how bubs is doing. I told him how my scans gave a due date 10 days apart and he said that could just come down to measuring a baby at a slightly different angle to someone else so he had a feel and said he thought I was between 10 and a 11 weeks. Poor DH, my OB recommended no sex till after 16 weeks. Bet he wishes he hadn't said he was too tired last Monday.

Hi Sammy, glad the OB appointment went well, im not suprised that he didnt try to get a HB. Its very unlikely and would probably have just stressed you out! 2 more weeks to wait seems like a long time but it will go quickly!

[luna moth]

Hey ladies... I'm still around. Just SO tired I can barely contribute, but I'm definitely still here! Love to all, hope you are all doing well.