Hi ladies,

Just popping in as i am lurking now since i got my BFP i know a lot of you ladies from the ttc thread and most of you are nearly ready to have your babies or some have already had them i don't know if i should join this thread just yet as i have to get past a 12 week cvs i have a 1 in 4 chance this baby wont be healthy so i am scared to join and talk all baby stuff only to have to leave and start again in 8 weeks time.
But in the ttc threads i feel i should not discuss my fears as there are ladies still ttc.

I am 4 weeks and 2 days today i got my BFP last sunday/monday 6 days after my day 3 embryo TF equivilent to 9dpo which is a good sign the babys hormones are nice and strong as my little girls hormone were really low and hpt were really faint from the day AF was due so i am a little excited this baby might be ok but not allowing myself to get my hopes up just yet.

I have to ring our Genetics professor as soon as i have my BT to make an appointment for an early dating scan then i go back to the professors at the fetal medicine unit at royal north shore as i am classed as very high risk of a sick bub until we get the all clear so i have many appiontments and scans ahead of me and it is going to be a very scarey wait to see if this baby has smith lemli opitz syndrome or not.

So i hope you dont mind me lurking and popping in from time to time until i get the all clear then i will be a regular.
Sounds like you have a lot to talk about and this is the right place. please dont lurk! This is the place we all talk about our fears, probably more so than the bubbas. i wish you all the best and hope the next few weeks go very quickly so you can be happy knowig you have gotten the all clear! congrats on you BFP.

Thanks Luna!

Congrats on 11weeks Angelfish!