thread: Pregnancy after Miscarriage or Loss May 2009

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  1. #1

    Oct 2005
    A Nestle Free Zone... What about YOU?
    5,374

    Sending you all the support and hope I can muster for a beautiful empowered birth Jen...

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    Registered User

    Jan 2008
    Newcastle,uk
    156

    Jenushka - Just wanted to wish you all best for the birth of your little miracle cant wait to hear news

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    BellyBelly Member

    May 2008
    NSW
    696

    Anybody had this happen?

    *** A little TMI ***

    Have been meaning to catch up on persies - been bogged down by work. But now, need to do a "me" post...

    This morning when I wiped I got the tiniest bit of pale pink-tinged CM. First time it has happened this PG and there was no BD or anything else that might have interfered with the cervix (which I know is a very sensitive muscle).

    As most of you know, I am a bit paranoid about my cervix shortening/dilating prematurely due to my history. Apparently pink-tinged and blood-stained mucous can be a sign of capillaries breaking while the cervix begins to open. But, I have not had it happen again today (I haven't had much CM to speak of lately anyway).

    Emailed my Ob earlier, but still waiting to hear back from him. Has this happened to any of you guys in your second trimester?

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    Registered User

    Apr 2007
    NSW
    775

    WTH, I've only had it once and it was straight after DTD. Can you ring your ob and speak to him personally rather than waiting for an E-mail response at all? I would be pushy if you are worried KWIM? I know my ob would not be worried in the least for me to ring him. Maybe they could squeeze you in for a scan tomorrow? I hope its nothing for you to worry about

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    BellyBelly Member

    May 2008
    NSW
    696

    Megsmum - you know the worry wart I am . Maybe this is a common thing - feel a little stupid to ring him when there may not be a problem happening at all IYKWIM.

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    Registered User

    Apr 2007
    NSW
    775

    Yeah I know But honestly if it were me I'd be on the phone, the only reason I didn't panic was because we had just DTD and it stopped pretty much straight away. I really do think that the only silly question is the one you don't ask, maybe he could pull some strings and get your cervix checked tomorrow? At least that way you will more than likely have your mind put at rest, you don't want to spend the next couple of days worrying - your next scan is on Fri isn't it?

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    BellyBelly Member

    May 2008
    NSW
    696

    You're right, so I rang. Ob wants to see me, but he now has two women in labour so I am on standby this evening until he has seen to them. Scan is next Tuesday - six sleeps so a little too long to wait. Thanx hun

  8. #8

    Oct 2005
    A Nestle Free Zone... What about YOU?
    5,374

    Given your history my love I would phone - and ask for an u/s. You are right that often scant pink discharge can mean that a cervix is dilating... HOWEVER!

    It can happen with no known cause in healthy pregnancy. I understand your concerns and I would be feeling anxious also.

    sometimes some thrush can cause irritation - sometimes just the increased blood supply to the area can cause it too...

    Sending my positivity to you...

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    BellyBelly Member

    Jun 2008
    Brisbane
    185

    Jenushka - best of luck with the birth !!

    WTH - hopefully the spotting is nothing to be concerned with, you over half way now so sure it will be nothing

    Best of luck

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    Registered User

    Apr 2007
    On the move
    168

    All the best with the birth Jenushka.

    WTH Glad you're in touch with the ob and are having it all checked out. Also good that there hasn't been any more pink CM. Hang in there, I'm sure it will be ok.

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    BellyBelly Member

    May 2008
    NSW
    696

    Megsmum, Flowerchild, Easha and Pash - thanx for your well wishes.

    I am relieved to report that I managed to see my Ob last night. He used his in-office US, and while not able to do a cervical measurement, he was quite confident it was closed.

    Have no idea what must have happened yesterday, but hopefully, that is the last of the pink-tinged mucous I will see until post-37 weeks!

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    Registered User

    Sep 2008
    Sydney
    1,413

    Thats great news WTH!!! you must have been so scared, hope there are absolutely no more complications to worry about!!!

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    Registered User

    Sep 2008
    Adelaide
    676

    WTH I'm glad all is still closed and Bubs is H&H I'm sure it was a weight off your mind. CM is an evil thing isn't it. it has the power to really freak you out.

    Flowerchild my red spots are due to thrush, I know it in my head but it's still scary to see any blood coming from down stairs,

    I think Doctors and OB's are pretty good usually like you said Megsmum they want to know even if it's nothing. My clinic said I could reing every day if I needed to. (not that OCD yet) but it's nice to know I can.

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    BellyBelly Member

    Jan 2006
    Coburg -Melbourne
    655

    WTH - I can well understand your worry and so glad everything seems to be ok. Great that your OB is so on top of things too. They just can't really ignore a thing like that.I am living on that "edge" right now too. Worried over every feeling of 'wetness" downstairs in case its amniotic fluid leaking. Doesn't help that my bladder is just hopeless since DS's pg/birth

    Flowerchild - forgot to thank you fo thinking of me few days ago. You probably still have enough on your own plate t worry about all of us

    AFM - had our anatomy scan yesterday. Baby looks fine, with all the appropriate bits and measurements all pretty spot on other than a large head ( great!!) and a small belly.... its just all gone to her brain i say! Ah yes, that wasn't a slip, we are expecting a pink bundle. We are not really telling anyone including DS but he has been adament from the start that "Upsy Daisy" is truly a girl/sister so at least he won't be disapointed. She seems more a miracle than ever given all but one of our prior angels were boys and when we did a round of PGD, we seemed to produce mostly boys. Determined little thing she is!
    Anyway, wish i could say I was over the moon with everything looking good but still very anxious that she will arrive before any chance of viability. My cervix was around 2.99cm so normal but still seems close to the 2.5cm cut off. Guess i just need something to worry over eh?
    Also strangely upset by getting past 20wks because now our baby is "legal". If something were to happen and she was stillborn, then we have to go through the birth/death certificates, funerals etc.
    I know it is a silly think to think about but makes it all very real when i have somehow managed to kind of live in denial about there actually being a "child" in there. Still can't let myself believe we may actually get a live one in our arms yet. Just want to get past 28wks