Thanks Megs mum and pash, I know what you mean about being told it is all over with no heart beat etc and then finding one... but the scan showed no signs of pregnancy, no sack, no fetal pole, no heartbeat etc .... she said if I am still pregnant it is not a normal scan and based on the description of what I passed on Monday I did have a misscarriage. She did an ultrasound on the stomach and an internal one just to make sure but she couldnt' see any signs of pregnancy..... I will ge tthe tests done anyway it's not far out of my way so I will go.

Thanks again