Pregnancy after Miscarriage or Loss ~ April 2011

[angelfish]

kellbell~congrats

Mildez~no at frist she was putting weight on fine she would fuss. Then there were days were she would just cry and cry. Then went from eating like a champ to not wanting to eat all then the throwing up happened and i was telling my bf at frist that there was somethng wrong he told me that i was just overeacting.the dr was slow with finding out what happening. The insurance finally paid for the med and we have been feeding her formula with extra powder and also ceral. At the dr appointment she has put on some weight.

[Melster]

quick question.....i had low fluid with DD and had her 3 weeks early due to it but i am not sure what caused it..at one stage they were worried about my blood pressure and thought i could have had pre-ec but i didnt. Im wondering about this one...

Sorry.......I have been having clear discharge...kinda smelly but not.....i dont know if its fluid or just normal discharge.....how can you tell? im not wet wet, but it is there....felt a little bit more when i was doing something yesterday and a little today...i have had a few light period pains but nothing major...belly feels tight...but over all i feel ok.

[alish]

woohooo kell!!

i hate my job so much!! ive set the date to leave and i know ill just hate it until i go! they are doin renovations & took the toilet away! really convinient for a pregnant person who needs to wee every 10 seconds! i have to walk up the rd to the office !! i hate them i hate them!

ok sook over!
hi everyone!

[ferrals5]

Forshelby-You are not a bad mother this is what happens when you have a baby it take s a while to settle them into a routine and with FF bubs it can take a few different ones until you find what suits bub best MARINA'S INFANT MIXTURE from the chemits it is a natural peppermint mixture for lower abdominal pain and colic it was on a current affair i started using it and ella burps at the drop of a hat now i love love love it and she is sleeping so much better on it.
And i dont know if ella is lactose intolerant or not but the formulas that have more casin in them seem to be harder on her belly and they build up in the gut and cause gas and colic NAN HA gold is 100% whey protein which is gentle on the belly and was good but ella was hungry on it and still a little windy so lactose free was the next step which is thicker and fills her more but without the lactose to build gas so now we have decided to put her on novalac colic as she is still moaning and groaning in her sleep and very restless she is asleep and only wakes once during the night and then at 6-7 in the morning but keeps me awake with her uncomfortable noises.
try a different formula go for one gentler on the belly and give it a few days to see how it goes and the Marina's infant mixture give before every bottle and the wind should come up easier and it can be given up to 8 times a day.
It has taken us 2 weeks of trying new formulas and different things to work out what is working and what isnt Ella loves a hot wheat pack wrapped in a blanket we put her on her belly on the lounge it will settle her if she is having pain before.
And bubs can feel your tension i know its hard try to keep calm and just remember crying doesnt hurt them so you dont kneed to hold him all the time sometimes bubs need to grumble and have a little cry they learn to self sooth that way.
Of course dont let him get worked up and to upset.

Honestly hun take a deep breath it will get better you just need to do what you can and try to sleep when he does.
And us experienced 4 time mum's have unsettled babies to.

Congratz kellbell a little boy how sweet.

[Tegam]

And us experienced 4 time mum's have unsettled babies to.

And feel tired and have days where we feel like we are doing a crap job!

Dont know how you moved house too Ferrals5 you are amazing!

[T-hopes]

Hey everyone!!

KellBell! Congratulations on beautiful baby boy Jayden!!!

Reet - Look at your ticker chick!!! WOW! How you doing?

Alish - EIK to no toilet!! What the heck are they thinking!!!

Forshelby - I just want you to know that Im thinking of you, i dont have the answers for the questions you have right now but we are all here to support you in every way we can! I am sure that your feelings, fears and emotions are all completely normal! Im so happy to read that today was a good day, dont forget about today when a bad day sneaks up on you! xx

Joeve - oh sweetheart, im sorry your little one had to leave so soon, your in my prayers and my heart breaks for you

Tegam / Ferrals / Dory- were all so lucky to have you in here! Your knowledge is so reassuring! xx

AFM - Well we saw my ob yesterday and my fundal measurement is now measuring 35-36 wks! Ob said that I defiantly wont be going past 38 wks due to my kidneys. He said he has consulted with my Urologist and they both agree that they dont want to take any risks so I will be induced... or depending on the babys size at tomorrows scan, he may possibly schedule a c-section but he said we will discuss it more at our next appt in 2 wks! This means I have no more than 6wks left! Holy moly! I got so emotional! Poor DH, i sobbed all the way home! Reality just kicked in and I had my first 'Oh my god im gunna be a mummy and what if i suck at it' moment! I guess i just feel like i have so much to organise and all of a sudden - i have a deadline! DH was wonderful and we came home, wrote some checklists of what i want/ need to get done... its really not that much so today i feel a lot more calm and in control and we get to meet our lttle one sooner than expected so that exciting!!!

I was also sobbing cause i didnt know how to swaddle! lol! Gosh i was a trainwreck! Damn those hormones! DH's aunty who is a midwife dropped by today and she showed me how to swaddle! So thats todays achievement!! I can swaddle!

[Reet]

T-Hopes- I dont even know how to hold a newborn! haha. I tried holding a friends a couple weeks ago and absolutely freaked out and had to hand him to dh to hold. Ppl say it will be different when its my own but im not so sure! They have always scared me a little! I love when they can start holding there own head up..they dont seem so fragile! Learning to swaddle hasnt even crossed my mind! haha. Maybe i need to make a list of things i need to learn before this baby arrives! I bet it wld be a long list!
U have a date! Yay! How very exciting!! I hope u can just be induced and dont need a c-section but at the end of the day if ur little one is here happy and healthy thats all that matters!

Im going really well thanks for asking! Heaps of energy, feeling way too good to be having a baby in a week! Thinking im definitely going to go over.. dammit! But hey anything cld happen i guess!

Dh has just called, ill be back soon! xxx

[Reet]

Forshelby- Im so sorry to hear u have been having such a rough time Im not even going to try and offer u any advice because i dont have any to offer! I think ill be asking the same questions in a few weeks time so i hope u remember some of the helpful tips from these lovely ladies so u can pass them onto me when im going insane!
Im glad ur feeling a bit better today, its amazing what a good rest can do. I dont think im going to cope well at all when im sleep deprived.
Thinking about u.. and make sure u enjoy ur day and night tomoro nite! (oh and go on.. give ur dp some haha)

Melster- From what i have heard the fluid is a yellowy colour so if its just clear its probably just normal cervical mucus. Ask ur dr at ur next check up tho. I have had quite a bit of cm this pregnancy..but its been more whitish in colour, one thing im looking forward to when im not pg anymore.. no more panty liners everyday!!

Alish- No toilet without a big walk..NO WAY!! How annoying! I guess u cld use it to ur advantage tho and take extra long walking to the toilet every time u need to go, which will be every half hour.. u will spend ur day having toilet breaks! So how many weeks left of work do u have?? Hopefully it goes super quick for u!!

Tegam- I have a hug a bub but was trying to get my hands on a close carrier instead just cos it looks so much easier to work out! Did it take u long to suss the whole hug a bub thing out?? It looks a little difficult! I love the idea of them tho, the baby snuggles in to u just like a little mammal wld snuggle into its mummy.. so adorable!

Ferrals- All settled in now?? Ur super woman for managing to move with a newborn! Did ur boys help out a lot?? Hows dh going with looking for work?? It must be so nice and helpful having him home all the time with u

Mildez- I really hope ur feeding issues get sorted soon. Im starting to get a little worried about the problems i might have... i didnt realise so many problems cld arise from trying to feed a baby. I think im in for a rude awakening!

Cheezlemonster- Im so glad that this pg is feeling a lot different.. definitely a good sign!

Hi Damprye and angelfish! Im sure i have missed other ppl, im so sorry if i have.. a big hello to everyone tho!

AFM- Had ob. appointment today, baby is still not engaged completely. I kinda knew that tho since i havent had any pressure down there whatsoever. Like i said to t-hopes before im feeling way too good still! Im just waiting for the whole 'im so over being pregnant!' stage to kick in! I think if i wasnt so excited about meeting this little baby i cld stay pregnant forever! I just dont know how ive gotten away with no typical pregnancy symptoms the whole time, from start to finish ive felt great.
Baby is still measuring a little small, today it was just under 38 weeks, and the bizarre thing is i lost half a kg in the last week. Ob said baby is definitely not suffering tho, its just sucking what it needs from me.. im hoping its taking my thighs!

My lovely mummy dear took me shopping yesterday arvo, now i have got everything i need! Im so glad she suggested it cos i dont think i wld have gotten around to going otherwise! Bought knickers, pyjamas, comfy pants, nursing pads, mat. pads.. and a few other bits and pieces for my hospital bag. Also bought a few baby things, like cot sheets, blankets, wipes, nappies...
I suddenly got so excited when we were buying it all!
So now im almost ready to have this baby! Just gotta wash the little clothes and blankets ppl have already given us for him/her, set the room up properly and ofcourse pack my hospital bag! Yay! Cant rush these things tho.. dont want to be sitting here twiddling my thumbs waiting for things to kick off.. wld much rather be busy and waiting at the same time

Anyway hope everyone is well!

Nite nite xxx

[Tegam]

quick question.....i had low fluid with DD and had her 3 weeks early due to it but i am not sure what caused it..at one stage they were worried about my blood pressure and thought i could have had pre-ec but i didnt. Im wondering about this one...

Sorry.......I have been having clear discharge...kinda smelly but not.....i dont know if its fluid or just normal discharge.....how can you tell? im not wet wet, but it is there....felt a little bit more when i was doing something yesterday and a little today...i have had a few light period pains but nothing major...belly feels tight...but over all i feel ok.

Mel I have had low fluid for 3 out of my 4 kids. Some places freak about and some have been ok. If DD was ok the it was probably just that you are a 'normal' low person! The discharge sounds normal but if your worried you should call your MW


Alish: No toilet, i hate them too just for you!