India's mum - hugs sweetie - it is very hard being pregnant after loss and even harder when you're confronted with bleeding, even if it's old. Sweetie, I'd go in if you're worried. I know it's a hassle, but it just means that even if the news is heartbreaking, you can be assessed to make sure that your health is not at risk. Good work on the flutters! That is awesome.

Reet - OMG, holding my breath... sorry meant to finish this, but little fingers got to the keyboard first. Congratulations on the arrival of your darling precious girl! Well done and enjoy the babymoon.

Dampyre - heartbreakingly true..... you also get a death certificate after 20 weeks... That is the one bit of mail you don't really want to get. Do you remember when you had really bad m/s with with pregnancy?

Ferrals - OMG - you are getting so much sleep! I can't believe it. That is just so amazing. We had a rough night here last night, H was up every 2 hours and awake for 1 hour and 50 mins... so only 10 mins "sleeping". About 4am she had been asleep for maybe 30 mins but then did the most massive series of farts and then nappy explosion. No way could I leave her in that mess..... it was so loud it woke DH up. There has to be a funny moment in there somewhere. Is your fam over the gastro?

Forshelby - glad Axel doesn't need surgery! You are doing a great job as a mummy. I feel bad today - I was "reasoning" with a screaming baby, and then realised what I should do is just pick her up. Now? I am letting her watch tv.... it's keeping her quiet.... after 2 hours of screaming today, I just needed some quiet time. I feel so slack using the electronic babysitter... feels like a cop out. Actually she is more interested in the computer. Ah well.

Hannah is still sick - diarrhoea and it seems still some tummy pains ( aka last night's sleepless night and today's screaming). The pathology came back and no bacterial infection. Not sure what to do now. As both Dr's I've seen are not too worried. I guess just wait it out and see what happens and if it's still not better in a few days go back to the Dr? Hmm, for those of you who are mums to older ones, do you think teething causes diarrhoea? My mum says it does....

Anyway, I am thinking of you all with your precious little miracles being nutured with love.... give yourself a big belly rub from us.