Pregnancy after Miscarriage or Loss ~ April 2011

[T-hopes]

S&S - Im broken hearted to read about the devastating loss of baby obie, thinking of you xx

[damprye]

Melster- I have found that water aerobics and other gentle yet physical activities help me to sleep

[alish]

cheezel - glad youre feeling better!

melster - are you able to rest through the day so you dont feel as tired/sore? how is your dad going?

my brother is in surgery as we speak getting his micro (mitro?) valve & aeorta (sp?) repaired.. nervous as hell but he will be fine, i sorta wish i was up there now, there isnt much i can do sitting in a waiting room though!

[Melster]

damprye..yeah i was doing that before my dad got sick and loved it, but because my mum worked there and everyone knows us i wasnt ready for everyone asking me questions all the time....but i gotta go back at some point..gotta loose this weight and get back on track again...

Hey everyone else..

Hey Alish...how are you? Im sorry to hear about you're brother..i hope he will be ok today....yeah dads ok, he is having radiation at the moment and chemo tablets. He is getting a bit tired but is ok at this stage...i have had a bit on driving my parents around to dr's and cooking and then looking after my own place etc...but i do try and rest. Lucky for me this has only just started now...i was like this from the start with DD and it was so horrible...luckily i only have 11 weeks to go.....WOW.....

I have huge pains down there at the moment!!!!!! could the head be engaging already???? or is it a bit early....all of a sudden i have all these pains down my legs and my lady parts......Maybe bubs is on a nerve down there??? i know when they did the 3d scan she was down that end......i couldnt believe this lady also said she couldnt be 100./. it was a girl because she was trying to look while my parents were in the room...and the end when my parents walked out she smiled and said girl.....so hopefully it is!!!!!

[alish]

meslter - wow 11 weeks, doesnt it seem like there is no time left?
im glad he is doing ok, i bet theyre so happy youre there for them, you are doing a great job
im going well thanks!
my bro should be fine, he had several heart ops before he was 5 and survived all of them, a pacemaker the year before last, he is a fighter.. still.... you know? cant help but worry!

is it possible for bubs to have hiccups or something yet? i had vibrations down into my lady bits yesterday arvo it was creepin me out!

MIL is coming with me to my scan today, how can i say no to her when she asks? i wanted to be able to ask the u/s person if it really is a girl, maybe i can ask her to step out of the room or something? any suggestions?

hope all you lovely ladies are well, its been quiet in here lately?

[WannabeMum]

alish - I can't believe she asked! I think asking her to come in a few minutes after it starts might work, you could say "I just want to have the first look, it's weird I know but do you mind if you wait 5 mins?"

[alish]

wbm - she is a captain cling on, way too ott for me, i can only spend an hour or so with her until ive had enough, she is a lovely lady dont get me wrong but all she ever wants to do is d&m me and im not like that!!
she totally put me on the spot and i hate that, when im asked something like that how can i not say yes!!! my own mum hasnt even asked!
dh thinks its hilarious haha i hate him!!
thats not a bad idea...

[Tegam]

Alsih, my mum came with DD1 and DD2 for our scan and i just said that they had to wait for the first scan to be completed then family are allowed in for a looksee after that The scan people prefer less people for all the 'boring' measurements anyway! Good luck!