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thread: Pregnancy after Miscarriage or Loss ~ April 2011

  1. #307
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    i want to wish all the mummy, mummies to b, mummies of angels a happy mothers day for tomorrow. i hope u get spoilt....

    Alish....yeah not to bad...good luck selling ur house..i hope u get a buyer straight away....are u moving far...take it easy while ur pregnant

    angelfish....i can understand ur anxiety...hopefully ur ob will be a good one and ull get some great results monday...how have u been feeling health wise?

    Cheshire, wannabe, pash...how u ladies going

    congratulations luna....hope ur stay is a longer one....i hope little bubba is nice and safe this time

    atm......me well im feeling a tad hormonal at the moment....and not getting much sleep even if i go to bed at 8pm........i just feel nackered all the time but i am doing alot.....and its been quiet emotional with hubby at the moment.....he is getting on my nerves and frustrating me....men...why are they so difficult to get through too and talk too......well my man anyways........bubs is moving away.....ten weeks to go......i have just started to stress a bit about the labor and about having two children to look after and wondering how hard its going to be until things settle and u get into a routine...its hard to believe that i will be looking after a new little person...and new little me......

  2. #308

    Dec 2010
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    melster - we will be moving about half an hour away, we bought 40 acres.. we need to finish the shed off out there first before we can live in it though.. we are starting to get on top of bills now so it should be fine.. just means power/water/sewage etc! its exciting though! i hope we get a buyer straight away too!
    ahh bloody men, its always the same isnt it? well its my 2nd night alone at home while dh is out drinking, i dont really mind cuz he isnt spending money but still.. would be nice to have him home! just for one night anyway, but then again he dosent do it much anymore.
    i cant believe you only have 10 weeks to go.. please dont stress, these things sort themselves out xxx

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    Apr 2010
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    melster i am just tired and that concerns me i know with honor by this time i had bad ms but its hard being tired and having a three and a half month old

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    MrsS~ congrats on the twins

  5. #311
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    did mrs s have her twins.....congratulations

    angelfish.....maybe because u have only just had honor things might feel different...u could have more hormones in ur body or something which could hold of ms a bit? hopefully everything is ok....one more day till ur appointment

    alish.....sounds great.....yeah my hubby has been out too...wait until the baby is here...im going to have a few night out myself and he can watch the kids....cant wait actually...i need a few drinks and a good night out

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  7. #313
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    Congratulations Mrs S on the arrival of Lleyton and Jackson! Well done!

    Happy mother's day to all the mummies and mummies to be.

    Angelfish: I don't think i've yet wished you well on your BFP. Lovely news. I'm sure it's hard work though: I remember i only felt physically ready to start thinking about another pregnancy when DD was about 8mths or so, so you've started your next journey very early on. Be kind to yourself as much as you can. Hopefully you will avoid bad m/s this time. Every pg is different.

    Luna: Congratulations to you too! I hope you get to stay a long time this time.

    India's mum: You poor thing still throwing up all the time! It must be hard managing that and DD1. You must be due for the 20wk scan very soon?

    t-hopes: Hope you are feeling ok. Sorry to hear your kidneys are worse. But very exciting that you'll be meeting bub so soon. You are now crowned queen the pregnantest in the thread i think!

    Melster: You sound a bit weary. Even if you can't drink, can't hubby watch DD and give you a night out? You could still have lots of chocolate even if no alchohol?

    Alish: Very excited for you about the move! We are not moving but will be fixing up a bathroom between now and when Baby arrives. It suits the nesting instinct i think! How are you feeling? I think you mentioned something about a UTI earlier this week? Oh, and did i say congrats yet on the news of a girl?

    Sorry for lack of persies, i'm a bit behind. Just did a few randoms from memory.

    Belly rubs to all xx

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    Thank you still a long hard road a head of us in SCN Lleyton stopped breathing yesterday very very scary!
    Wow you did good on persies I was going to do them my minds blank now!


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  9. #315
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    Apr 2010
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    This is my frist mothersday and my bf made me cry he made me a card with honors pictures in it since birth and on the inside it said to the best mommy in the world.

    MrsS~ It must have been very scary i am praying really hard for you and your two little ones.

    possuim magic~ thank you i did not think that it would happen so soon but i am ready for another one. The only hard part right now is being so tired. But i know that i can do this

  10. #316

    Dec 2010
    Victoria
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    hey possum! im going good! im getting puffed really quick but that could be my asthma as well! my uti i gone thank god! i started drinking citravescent (yuck) and it went in a couple of days! thanks for asking!
    good luck with the bathroom, a move or reno of any kind is stressful! the house here is almost finished (just touch ups) so its just getting the shed started now, i told dh id be happy with a shed floor (haha!) and just a basic shower & toilet.. there are generators for power & we have a gas heater.. just to take the pressure off him.. im lucky he is a carpenter & can come home after work and do some stuff!
    thanks we are so excited to have a girl! we have a feeling its an all girl family for us..
    how are you going?

    melster - oo i cant wait to have a night out either! us and our mates are big drinkers so its been an adjustment for me haha

    angelfish - thats nice he made a card for you, very sweet

    mrs s - how is lleyton going now? yes very scary..

    how are all the other lovely ladies? xx

  11. #317
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    T-Hopes - Aww your baby shower sounded just beautiful. 40 friends and family? WOW. If there's one thing I regret is the way my baby shower went down in flames. So nice to hear a positive story where it goes right, and of course getting spoiled doesn't hurt.

    Luna - welcome! Good luck with your CVS, and you're right that heartrate does sound good. I know it's hard to relax, and you have good reason to feel edgy about it. But I have everything crossed this one is a sticky.

    Pash - Interesting, I had a MW tell me there's no such thing as nipple confusion. I wish I could remember the reasoning she gave me but at the time it really made sense. I found that Axel hated formula at first (while I was incapacitated in the hospital) and would BF like a champ. But he did need top-ups so got used to formula. For a while there he was feeding from bottle and boob like a little pro. No signs of any confusion at all. Though now my milk is almost gone, I can only get about 15ml expressing (trying to increase this dramatically) and he won't take to the boob. I think part of it is because he doesn't want to work for his food, lol. He likes the fast flow of a bottle. LOL I couldn't help but chuckle at your DD's wee and poo escapades. Cute..

    Dory - Thanks so much for the mothers day text. Sorry I didn't get around to replying till now... I've got my hands full as I'm sure you understand lol. I hope you had a lovely day also

    Melster - Just remember having a new baby will most likely never be as hard as the first time. You're a seasoned mumma now!

    Mrs S - Congrats! Can't wait to hear the details That must have been so frightening when Lleyton stopped breathing, so glad he's alright. Enjoy your double snuggles hehe

    Angelfish - Great attitude, hun. You can do this! How's your DP been about the new pg? Is he coming around to the idea?


    AFM - Sorry to anyone I missed, I fell behind a little. Happy Mothers day to everyone! (and a special hooray to all of us enjoying our first official mothers day)

    Axel is doing a lot better lately. His last cast came off and he was fitted with boots and bars. The bad news is the boots were rubbing his feet and causing blisters, which in turn made him incredibly restless and irritable. I'm talking waking every half hour during the night screaming, and not sleeping at all during the day unless I was holding him. Pretty rough. DH and I had one of those 'bingo!' moments though when we realised WE are calling the shots here, and that we can make decisions for our son. We don't have any faith in the hospital, and feel these boots and bars (picture a snowboarder) are a bit excessive for such a mild problem with his foot. Which, by the way now looks perfect. So I'm heading to the GP in half an hour for a 2nd opinion/refferal to a physiotherapist. I've done some research and it seems like physio should do the trick. Of course at the first sign of relapse, we'll begin more aggressive treatment. We just don't want to see our baby boy suffer if he doesn't need to. Plus it's really awful trying to squish his little feet into those boots. He screams and thrashes and it just kills me inside.

    Other than that, all is well and he's sleeping up to 5hrs at a time now! He only wakes twice during the night, and the last waking is usually around 5am anyway so technically it's not night anymore. So proud of my little trooper.... and so relieved to get a bit of rest. I think I'm getting the hang of this! YAY!

    Anyway I must be off, gotta try to get dressed to go out. Should be interesting while holding my little wiggler... lol. Love to all!

  12. #318
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    Apr 2010
    selkirk, ny
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    forshelby~ thank you and i know as frist time parents its hard to remmber that you call the shots when it comes to drs but you do if i did not have one of those moments honro could still be sick and i would not know what was goingon good luck at the drs

    AFM i am heading to the drs to see what is going on .

  13. #319

    Dec 2010
    Victoria
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    forshelby - im glad you took that boot thing off, axel sounds much more relaxed now, and at the end of the day, thats what you need to keep sane - a happy baby.

    angelfish - how did u go at the drs?

    oh my god i could kill my sil..i feel like she copies everything i do, if i wear a top she will have it the next time i see her or jewellery or anything, she hates that i took my dh "away from her".. ever since i announced my pregnancy shes wanted to have a baby, and bil told me she was off the pill at easter and i thought to myself "here we go" but cuz shes depressed etc shes on a whole heap of pills and she was trying to get them right before they started trying.. annywaaaay she announced she was pregnant 2 weeks ago.. i got a bit upset but im happy for them.. until i found out the week before she announced she was pregnant she was telling mil that she wanted to leave bil! WTF!! why would you bring a baby into that?? im so f*cking angry at her, a baby isnt a patch for a relationship that has problems?? it makes me so sad..
    not that id wish it upon anyone but if she only knew how hard it is to have a baby let alone make it stick.. she takes pregnancy for granted cuz shes never had a problem with it..

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    Aug 2010
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    Alish....What a difficult situation...a baby is defiantly not a patch thats for sure..actually it can make things harder and more intense if you're not on the same path

    Angelfish..What a lovely mothers day for you....thinking of you at you're app..hope it goes well..i will be watching for you're return!!!!

    Forshelby...how did you go with that second opionion? You must be lovin the 5 hrs sleep...hope you're feeling a bit better now

    Mrs s...how is bubs doing now? that must of been so scary you poor thing..are you ok?

    PM...Yeah i could still have a night out...but i am just tired and grumpy anyways LOL..i will wait until i can have a proper night out with loads of alcohol...LOL although i cant last like i used to..and always want to come home early to DD.....

    ATM.....30 WEEKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Things arent that great with hubby and i at the moment....im so over everything i tell you...think its all the hormones and tiredness as well....

  15. #321
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    Melster- Congrats on th big 30 Hope things settle down with DH

    Alish- I'd love that to get to spend on myself lol. I struggle yet I don't touch my DS's money box. Band-aid babies just don't work IMO. All it does is make things even more stained and the poor kids feel that

    Forshelby- Glad yo hear Axel's feet are doing better.

    Angelfish- Naww that is so cute =^.^=

    MrsS- My goodness, that would enough to give anyone a fright. Hope you and your boys just get stronger from here.

    Possum- How are things with you?

    AFM- Really hoping today gets better. With everything that happened yesterday and now this morning, I'm ready to just scream. Thank goodness DS has daycare today. Think I'll end up breaking down by the end of it though :/

  16. #322
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    Apr 2010
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    Hi everyone i dont know if i like this dr or not but no blood test i have an us appointment at the end of the month for dating but she wants me to take the progeston pills again with all my pregnancy it has been low

  17. #323
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    Angel- I'd say time for a second opinion

  18. #324
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    Damprye...thanks...yep know exactly how you're feeling and can sympathise with you..sending you a hug

    angelfish...yep i agree..if you're not feeling comfortable not getting a blood test try someone else...alot of them just dont understand you need the reassurance....

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