thread: Pregnancy after Miscarriage or Loss ~ April 2011

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  1. #1
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    Apr 2009
    Melbourne
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    HI ladies,
    I was here a while ago (Jan I think), but left when my twins left to go to heaven. The good news is we're pg again! Can I come back?

    I'm 5 weeks today I think, and I've had cramping all day and still heading to the loo every hour to see if I'm bleeding, but so far so good...

    It sounds like everyone is at different stages, some almost due! How exciting! I will do persies when I've been back and read through everything properly.

    Stay well,

    Bec

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    Feb 2007
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    Popping in to say i'm still around. I just have this stupid head cold which wont go away.

    I'll pop back in soon

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    Aug 2009
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    T Hopes and MR T HOPES - glad yo hear your op went well..... stay snug little one, just a little longer! But like Ferrals said, 3-4 weeks early is ok. Thinking of you three......

    BecnXavi - CONGRATS!!!! Xavi and Pip are going to be big brothers ( I just kinda assumed Pip was boy...) Well done on being UTD and 5 weeks! Oh oh, I am just so excited now....

    CM - know the feeling about stupid head colds. I have just gotten over one, the first one I have ever had where I couldn't take drugs and couldn't rest as HB also had it - poor wee girl. OMG, it was a test of my inner fortitude.

    Apart from that, all good here. Belly rubs. I know I don't get in here much anymore.... I am not on BB very much at all really, not like I used to be. Guess it's good for me, but I do miss you. Am looking forward to reading your BA's.

    I mean Melster you are 31 weeks now! Oh and I hate tongue ulcers and sore parts behind your top front teeth - did you scald it? That's how mine gets hurt anyways.

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    Jan 2008
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    BecnXavi - welcome back! I remember the sad loss of your twins, because it was at a time when I was just starting to TTC after my own ectopic pregnancy. I am so happy for you. I know what you mean about the cramping, the night before I got my BFP I slept with the pad, because I was so sure AF will show up in the morning, the cramping was quite intense. I still feel it every now and then and I am almost 10 weeks.

    T-hopes - so exciting, you may be meeting your baby any minute now. Finally, the end to all the PAML worries.

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    Nov 2008
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    welcome bec! So exciting!! Are you having bloods or scans or anything or just waiting it out? I had cramps too, and heaps of pain (I had an ovarian cyst around 5cm).

    Luna - good to see you around, so pleased things are going well!

    dory and Cheshire - how bad are colds at the moment! I mouth breathed and snored (I'm sure) all night and slept awfully b/c I'm coming down with one - so is DS. They suck, especially when you can't take the drugs

    I say - come back DH! He'll be back Sunday, but probably worse than useless on Sunday, but still can't wait until he is home.

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    Cheezel...im sorry to hear you're sister isnt well, yeah i know what you mean about the concentrating thing.....i feel almost dazed out sometimes

    Mr T-hopes....thanks for the update. Let Mrs T-hopes know were thinking of her and pray that bubs stays in there a bit longer. Hope she is not in too much pain. Give her a cuddle

    Wannabemum...me and hubby are 7 years and 3 married..does that make me old too LOL........yeah i ended up using DD bon, and mum gave me this ulcer stuff that was like a paste you put on..think it is nearly cleared up now thank god.................no good about you're back

    I am one to say what i feel, when i feel it. Im not a bottler, i like to get everything out...and hubby has made that very hard for me lately which is why i am having so many issues..i want to be heard and listened to and my views validated even if he doesnt agree....i want to resolve the problems and move on..............i tend to say things straight away and want to get it off my chest and confront it and then move on. hubby says i am too forward and quiet harsh. Then he is the complete opposite, he doesnt like to deal with things, he prefers to ignore them until they fester and he reaches boiling point and then everyone cops it. Its like he cant handle too much information at once..cant handle any cristisim thats thrown at him and he gets too flustered. So he turns his back and walks away so ic ant finish, and because i am one to want to talk about it and deal with it...it all blows up..because i think its very disrespectful and rude not to listen to what someone is saying...even if you dont like it. He will ignore my texts, calls, letters if it has to do with issues...and then i have no idea how he really feels......how can denial work and make you happy...you can't just walk around pretending everything is ok and hope it blows over..........thats why the circle continues with him......anyways thats my spat....he hasnt gone still he is just avoiding me at all costs...

    Bec.......welcome again and congratulations....how are you feeling about this pregnancy??????? how have you been going?

    Cheshire...hello...sorry to hear about you're cold..hope you get better soon

    Dory....hey how are you and bubs doing? i know i am nearly 32 weeks...so 8 weeks to go..it doesnt seem real..although when bubs moves now it feels like an alien in there LOL...i dont know how i did it, i was quiet stressed the other day and im wondering if i did it myself or in my sleep...when i get stressed i curl my toes..im wondering if i was grinding or something instead

    Luna..how are you going?

    ATM....last day at work today!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i cannot wait to have a rest...its amazing how tiring working 4 days again can be when pregnant...i just want a sleep in and a cuddle with my DD............im a bit emotional at the moment and think i need a rest from everything and a good sleep

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    Jan 2008
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    wannabemum: ive been married 9years and together 15yrs....Just saying makes me feel REALLY old.....Im only 33