Thank you Stoked, Tegam and Mildez your words and advice is very greatly appreciated. I have booked in for my dating scan on the 31st of Jan. my Ob told me to not worry about the scan and just go back to him in a months time which will be the 14th Feb. Now I don't know if I should ring and cancel the Ultra sound and just go into my OB on the 14th or should I keep my scan appointment on the 31st of this month and go to both of them. Gee bub aint even close to being born yet and so many decisions I have to make I feel like screaming....lol.....