Oops, sorry, I really need to check my spelling, just a lil had on my phone. Meant to say after s/he decides* to get out of the posterior position lol. So not having another posterior birth, already been killing my back and DS's labour was soooo long and difficult because of it.
If this bub is anything like big bro, it could take more than a few days of early labour before active labour starts lol.
WBM- I think the 'boring' stage is awesome. Everyone has calmed down and you get to spend time with your belly and all its wriggliness lol.
Yays on the baby shower, I'm tempting fate and having mine Sunday the 14th... If I make it lol
just popping into say hello and i miss u all and thinking of everyone....wish i was pregnant again so i could come in here lol lol...
ariana is going well....she is tiny compared to dd..she sleeps pretty good and is feeding better
dads had a bad turn for the worst and has another tumor and is in hospital....so its not looking great....luckily i have my beautiful dd by my side to keep me going.....
thankyou for your thoughts im sorry im slack at personals but just wanted to update you and ask you your thoughts....
im just so confused and in limbo, it seems im still pregnant but the numbers aren't going up as they should, they were 14800 last wednesday and today was 19515, dr is cautious, basically saying it is still viable and growing but if it slow it might mean there is a problem. she has said to have a scan 2 weeks after the first which isn't for another 9 days.
i just don't know what to think, i really thought it was all over and now i don't know what to think, don't know if there is any hope and don't want to get my hopes up only to find them crushed in a few days, i have cried for days over this and it doesn't look like i will know much more anytime soon *sigh* why is it so hard
Minnie: I'm wishing so hard for you that the news will be good but I understand why you are scared to hope when the doctors aren't giving you 100% reassurance. I've been told that in general there is a range for heartrate and size that they expect to see at certain points in the first trimester and they get worried if you are measuring more than a few days behind. (I think size and HR tells them more than HCG levels?) But even with these there might be some variation? If only it wasn't such a terrible waiting game.... I'll be thinking of you and hoping for good news. Could you get a scan done after one week (instead of waiting two) or does the doctor think it won't give you enough information?
Minnie~ i am sending you long distance hugs. Maybe if the dr thinks that two weeks would show better maybe you could have two with in the two weeks. If you explain how stressful this is on you.
AFM~ on the 11th i have my morph scan I wish that the day would get her soon but i am scared to have it done if that makes sence
minniemouse - sending you lots of hugs darl If it makes you feel better, my HCG levels with DD at around 6wks were only 700 and something, and almost 2 weeks later were only around the 15,000 mark, so your levels are still ok and I'm keeping everything crossed that bub stays in there! DD also had a low HR at out 7wk6d scan - only around 120 something I think, it was a year ago now, so my memory is a bit hazy. Keep hoping, pray, whatever you need to do, and try not to stress too much (very hard to actually so I know!), take some time for yourself, treat yourself to something special just for you xxx thinking of you!
Hi everyone else!
Not much happening here... haven't actively been on BB for a while - though have stopped by to see who had babies...
Feeling a little lost these days, last week hubby told me we could have another baby or 2 in a couple of years and then turned around and told me the other night that Elise was it and he wanted the vasectomy as soon as possible... don't really know where to go from here now... I don't belong in the preg or ttc or even pre-ttc threads anymore and most of those in my baby buddies group will be having more kids in future, I don't know where to go
It sucks, I'm only 24 and now I'll have to spend the next 20+ years getting AF every month until menopause comes along knowing that I'll never have another baby... I just want to cry and I can't
Sorry, bringing you all down, but I don't know where else I can go, and I know you all will understand how I'm feeling
im sorry im slack at personals but just wanted to update you and ask you your thoughts....
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