thread: Pregnancy after Miscarriage or Loss ~ March 2011

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  1. #1
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    gl like your new pic of you and J

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    BellyBelly Member

    Dec 2009
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    Melstar - thinking of you at this hard time, some of these feelings are very close to me too.. my DH's mum is very very sick and its awful to see the heartbreak, pain and devastation in their eyes but we need to stay strong for the our babies because nothing will make them happier than these new grandchildren on the way xx... As Tegam said - we are here for you xx

    Mildez - Yup - the big 30wks tomorrow! Gosh im excited about it too!! But im so worried this little one is going to come sooner rather than later! I swear he/she is trying to bust out! Some days i feel like there is an arm about to poke out of my vee-jay-jay!!!
    Glad to hear you have settled in well back at home! Poor little Josie's bottom!! How sore for her!!! I love her name! It is too cute!!!

    HI Dory & HB! Hope your both well!!

    Hiya to everyone ive missed too!!!

    xx

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    he has to go in friday...and of all days my bday...not that i care his life is more important than anything....and they will do a biopsy and take as much of the tumor as they can and then he will have to have radiation most likely....it is an aggressive one so it wont be that great news but the nuro said he doesnt even want to talk about time etc until he knows exactly whats going on...so it will come down to how long he can survive it for.....he is trying to get everything organised at home...he is only worried about mum......they have been together 45 yrs..............its just so so sad............

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    Mummytotwo: so very sorry that this pregnancy has ended in sadness for you. I hope you get some answers from your blood tests. Hope D & C went as well as can be expected today.

    Melster: Sorry that you are going through such a hard time. I will be thinking of you and your family this week.

    T-hopes: Sorry to hear that your mother in law is not doing well (i remember you posted about her diagnosis some time ago but you haven't posted an update in a while). She must be hanging out to meet her grandchild as something positive to look forward to.

    Mildez: Ouch! Poor you exploding with milk. Sounds very uncomfortable. I hope your system settles a bit soon and Josie's little bottom is soothed by the cream!

    Alish: yay for flutters! I am getting them every day too now : ) It is making the baby seem more real for me too. I think i hadn't let myself connect with the baby too much early on in case something went wrong but whenever s/he pokes me i'm aware that there's this little person there and have to say hi!

    Wannabemum: yay for the good scan!

    Kellbell: ooooh! That's so exciting that your belly has dropped. So won't be long now?

    Angelfish: Hope Honor is feeling better now.

    Reet: belly rubs! So close for you now too.

    Forshelby: Go DP! What a beautiful thing to do for you. HOpe you and Axel are both doing well.

    Dory: Hi! Squealing can be cute...when it's not ear shattering!

    AFM: Flutters every day now. Very reassuring. Baby seems to react to talkback radio on the way home from work in particular!

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    BellyBelly Member

    Dec 2009
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    ohhh Possum! Look at your beautiful little mango!!!! So excited to hear that you are getting flutters daily! Yayaya for baby Possum Thanks for asking after my MIL, just taking each day as it comes at the moment. Unfortunatly it has spread to her breast, liver, throat - its everywhere basically! Just pray everyday that she gets thru the next 10 wks comfortably and able to meet our little one xx

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    Aug 2009
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    T hopes - oh sweetie, it is so tough.... sorry to hear that your MIL is so very sick. No doubt she takes great pride in your ever expanding bump!

    Melster - not good news, but hopefully your FIL is a fighter and will do the best he can....

    Possums - oh I LOVE that you are getting flutters and are starting to connect to your Lil Poss.

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    Aug 2010
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    thanks everyone..

    Mummytotwo. Im sorry to hear you're news and i pray they find some answers for you.

    T-hopes..im sorry to hear about you're mother inlaw. Its such a horrible thing to have to go through.. I hope you and you're other half are coping ok. Hopefully she will make it to see bubs...

    Hello to everyone else...sorry if i am vague.

    I love how my hubbie always seems to turn things around so it's always about him....its so annoying. I wish he was more understanding at this present time, even tho he was with me and helping me look after DD it was his attidude...anyways i cant think too much about him because i will end up doing something or saying something i'll regret and this is not the time because im not seeing things clearly and im really loosing it about dad...

    Im ok other than waking up through the night now and not being able to get back to sleep...needing to go to the toilet a bit, the other end..and tightening in my belly..its probably all stress....hopefully little bubbie is ok in there tho.

    Mum will be staying with me from friday until dad (hopefully) comes back home. Think he is in intensive care for 5 days then recovery so it may be a week or so but we will just have to wait and c.....we can only stay in a little bit when he is in intensive care so will probably go in a few times a day....hopefully he will survive the op...being 70 and previously had a heart attack a few years ago....anyways trying to be brave and strong....i dont even want to do anything for my bday anymore....