melster - even if the ring was a cheapie id be furious.. id just search her things, my dads daughter used to steal mums jewellery/porcelain dolls & my mums daughters school stuff - pencils, textas, books etc..mum had to end up searching her bag every w/e before she went back to her mums..
youre right, you cant really make a decision if youre hormonal but you also cant stay in a marriage that isnt working.. i wish he would talk to you so you could work it out! and i hope you work it out! xx

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