Phebee - Welcome to the thread. We all completely understand about the stress as well as joy that a new pregnancy brings.

Angelfish - I'm sorry you had such a bad day. Have you and your partner considered counselling? Maybe you should think about it. I think if one person is threatening to leave then it's time to take it seriously.

Melster - sounds as though you have your options laid out and still have time to make up your mind. Sorry to hear you are feeling so sick still.

Possum - I was telling DH that I am so over this pregnancy because, as far as I'm concerned, it's a two year pregnancy. I got pregnant Feb 09, lost that bub but kept getting pregnant within a few months only to lose them as well. So I am well and truly over this pregnancy because it does feel like all the one pregnancy.

Was it you that asked me about the sex of bub? I do know but am saving it for the birth, though I let slip to my sister accidentally by saying him/her on the phone and she was really angry with me as she didn't want to know.