jessica...welcome and congratualtions....hopefully this will be a sticky bub for u....i wish u all the best

angelfish.......how do u deal with it? She is not living at either of our houses at the moment. She was a good girl when she was with us. Its only lately she has turned....she was my favourite. But now she doesnt want anyone to control her. She wants to do what she wants. We havent even seen her much. Hubby told her that if she doesnt return it she is not welcome here anymore. His eldest son went slightly off the rails but he is also kinda quiet.....the other two will hit teenager land soon.........it doesnt seem to matter what i do.....everyone always says...there only children and there his children.....so i always end up the bad guy................i so hope everything is ok with ur bubba

alish...tegam....yep ur defiantly right....he has some serious deep seeded issues from child hood etc and with his ex.....but it cant be an excuse anymore...he either needs help....or leave.........but it doesnt matter which way i approach it he just wont leave...but he wont talk either......so i am completely stuck......