alish - I didn't think I'd have a problem with putting a little girl in blue if this one's a pink bundle, but I don't think I'll be able to! I'd buy a few non-blue ones. You wont be buying much that way, but will obviously have a little girl. Best n Less are really cheap! Worth a visit to pick up a few cheapies. Or just wait to see how much you get given - give people an idea of where you're short of stuff and let them fill the gaps. DH can always visit the supermarket while you're in hospital if he needs to!

angel - I'm glad your bf is coming around - I hope he stops feeling guilty if he is able to offer Honor more than his other kids. It's tough, my Mum was a sole parent pensioner until I was about 14, so my younger brother got more opportunities simply because the finances were different when he was a bit older - it irked at the time, but we understood it was just the way it was, and none of us missed out on what we needed. I hope he just gives all the love in the world to all his kids and enjoys the time he gets to spend with them

possum - try not to freak out too much about the movement. The main thing is regular movement, DS would always give a wriggle if I poked him when he'd been quiet for a while - some people swear by hot/cold drinks, or fizzy ones to make baby move. As for the "frantic" movement - who is meant to know what that means! Just enjoy the movement.

looking forward to some scan news from DD and phee!