Pregnancy after miscarriage or loss ~ November 2010

[Tegam]

Yes mother guilt is a killer! I guess its right we care

[angelfish]

This post is going to be about me sorry.... So today i am 30 weeks today. On the 30th ( yes i just relized this) that i have a growth scan i am so scared i am counting down the days

[Tegam]

OH ANgel with no ticker i always forget how far you are 30weeks is amazing! congratulation! Sorry you are worried about the scan. I have one on the 6th and im stressed to, all part of being a parent i guess.

[Melster]

mildez and honebee....thanks

stoked.....how r u going now? Hows the spotting. R u ok?

Dory.......yeah mothers guilt is killer.....but it was only an accident and she will forgive u...ur a good mummy

tegam......i always worry about the leg in the car seat

angelfish...congrats on the 30weeks

atm....im a bit worst for wear......i have been so queezy and had a killer headache last night....think morning sickeness may have kicked in....god i feel terrible.....no more bleeding just some period type pain.....im feeling a bit sorry for myself and had a 2 hr nanna nap yesterday....i am feeling quiet emotional and moody as well...ready to bite anyones head of and punch hubby in the arm.....

[Mildez]

Melster my MS was at its worst around the 6-8weeks.

Angelfish woohoo on been 30weeks! Your so close to that scan. I'm sure everything will be wonderful.\

Dory don't feel bad. I remember with DD1 I use to carry her through the doorways (old farm house) and bump her head. I did it accidently on numerous occassions poor bubba.

Ferrals TMI so don't feel you need to tell me but just wondering what your Ob said about DTD with placenta previa? Maybe with our pregnancies we have even more in common. I spoke to another Ob at work (haven't seen the scans) but she thinks it sounds like a placenta previa I have due to the excessive large lakes and extra vessely vascular appearance (despite the placenta not covering the cervix it only extends to it) she also said as its on the posterior wall its unlikely to move up enough. Apparently if its on either of the lateral walls or anterior it usually moves but the posterior side doesn't expand much in later pregnancy. Anyway DH and I have had a very active sex life during this pregnancy (way better then it ever was ttc over the years) so I'm thinking I should reduce the amount atleast especially when I'm having BH already. Still have a week and abit to see my own Ob to find out for sure.

[Tegam]

Dory don't feel bad. I remember with DD1 I use to carry her through the doorways (old farm house) and bump her head. I did it accidently on numerous occassions poor bubba.

OOops done that too! actually i am starting to wonder how my children have survived!

[forshelby]

Stoked - I think it's still early enough that bubby could still be snuggling in and implanting? I hope all is well in there

Dory - I think I just got a crummy doctor who was in a rush. Next time I'll be refusing to have them feel for baby's position, it just freaks me out too much and gives me awful tummy pains. If anything like that happens again I will be complaining. Hannah bear will be fine, since she was still sleeping it couldn't have bothered her too much She was probably basking in the sunshine and enjoying it!

Tegam - Hehe, I couldn't help but chuckle when you said 'leg fat'. Soooo cute. Good luck for your growth scan

Angelfish - Good luck for your growth scan too, hun All will be fabulous.

Melster - LOL @ your punching hubby in the arm comment. If he complains tell him next time it'll be the face. I hope you're feeling less queasy soon!

Mildez - Enjoy the nookie while you can, hehe

AFM - Went to BIL's birthday party last night, it sure is a different experience going to parties when pg. I ended up hanging out with the kids because well, we could all be sober together, lol. My niece and her little friend were hovering around all night on 'standby' to feel the baby kick. Very cute. I still had a good time though but was slightly devastated that there was no cake. The only part I didn't enjoy were some of the older women (friends of SIL) proceding to treat me like a bit of an idiot regarding motherhood..... I got the condescending 'oh it's going to get so much worse honey' and the 'you think that's bad.... (insert horror story here)'. One lady laughed when I said I wasn't afraid of the birth. Why do women insist on doing that??? I just brushed their comments off though, and reminded myself that no matter how the labour goes I have faith in my body and feel confident about giving birth. I get that it's going to be the most intense pain I've ever felt. But trying to scare the sh** out of me isn't going to help anything, or change anything.... it's actually just rude and unsupportive.

Ok that's my mini-vent for the day. I hope everyone is having a lovely weekend