Thanks for your words of encouragement ladies you are great and i know that i have had a really rough time with stress over the last 2 years and we could really use a break and life can suck big time but we have our healthy girl growing inside me so that keeps the smile on my face and i have won my lotto of a life time so if it means we have to struggle for a while so be it my kids will never go without we will but i can live with that.

Forshelby-men they have no clue the dog has no idea what it done after the fact they need to be caught and punished when they are doing it.

Reet-the movements are awesome arent they last night DH put his hand on my belly and little miss went ballistic he laughed and said we have a soccer star in there he couldnt believe how strong her kicks are for 23 weeks.

Angelfish-i was told at 34 weeks with my 1st son he was 8 pounds already but 6 weeks later he was born 6 pounds so they only estimate.

AFM-this is DH last pay day for a while so i am going to make it count and do a big buget shop and finish the kids xmas stockings i am glad i did all the xmas shopping weeks ago.