Pregnancy after miscarriage or loss ~ November 2010

[Melster]

Ferrals..we were in a simlar situation...well legal stuff anyways and dr bills etc....boy i know exactly how you must feel right now. Its so hard when you have no control over a situation and things are going pear shape and theres not much you can do about it....wish there was something i could say to make you feel better...you need to just concentrate on you're bub and pray and HOPE things will work out....we ended up going for hardship as well and hubby got it, so hopefully you will too and hopefully the courts will work out that this guy is lying and you're partner was defending him self...hopefully you're lawyer is really good...!!!!!

Worst case senerio maybe you could borrow/rent/buy a second hand car seat and clean it...just until you can afford you're own...

Nah you cant risk the baby...you need to look after yourself and just pray things will work out in the end

ATM...were breaking up today and have a lunch at work...so i will let uno how my scan goes tomorrow..its in the arvo...............im

[forshelby]

Kit - It was an epic battle of wills..... soooooo glad I won't be doing that again for a while.

T-hopes - I said the same thing this morning. I'm free!!!! No babysitting rotten kids today!

Ferrals - Awww hun it's been so hard for you lately. I think a few days off are just what you need right now. I hope this whole thing is over quickly and I hope even more that your DH wins the case!

Melster - Best of luck for tomorrow's scan!

AFM - Nothing exciting to report here, enjoying a peaceful day on my own and loving it. I had a hospital appointment this morning and was lucky to actually be seen on time, so then went to try and get my sister's xmas present. Of course the salesman was rude, and ignored me for a good 10 minutes. There was nobody else in the store and I tried to get his attention a couple of times. Then as I turned to walk out of the store he went to greet me and I just said TOO LATE, BUDDY and walked out. LOL, bit of pg rage there, I think. So, I'm still no closer to finishing the shopping.... but whatever. Today is my day and I desperately need to rest and recover after my extreme babysitting challenge.

[Tegam]

AFM - 15wks today! Hooray Bought my first pair of Maternity Jeans on Sunday!! They are ace!! I got 2 pairs for $78 at Jeanswest - i had no idea they even sold them there until some girls in my bellybuddies were talking about them! And they are cool as! Skinny leg and straight leg! Im rockin em with my little belly

YAY for 15weeks and double yay for the maternity jeans!

ATM.......WELL BIG MOUTH certaintly open her big mouth.....YIPEE tho for getting my contract renewed for six months...(been here 10 years) and he said if i wanted to talk about anything...told him what was going on and he was really good...said at the end of my contract he would fight his hardest so they would keep me...guess ill just have to wait and see...so now two bosses know and two work people..so it will be all around the office soon....lets hope that my scan on Thur is ok...if not at least i have two weeks off

YAY for the contract! Thats great news, now a fantastic scan tomorrow and you can have the best xmas ever!

Might I just add.......................................

SERENITY NOW!!!!!

I made it. I did it! I did it without losing my sanity.

Well done!

Ladies,
I am having a mental breakdown, yesterday DH got all the court paperwork and in it is a quote for $7500 for the drunk d#ckhead two front teeth that suposedly will need root canal therapy and capping if the pulp of the teeth die WTF!!!!! if DH loses the case OMG! this is just getting worse i broke down and burst into tears at work last night and txt DH and went off HOW COULD YOU GET US INTO THIS SITUATION! i know he didnt mean it and the drunk assulted him first and DH was just protecting himself but it has all backfired.
DH has to apply for hardship to access his super to help pay for the lawyer and help us move house and pay bills.
If he doesnt get it we are f#cked we now cant even afford to pay for a car seat if i were not pregnant i could work more but i just cant risk it with this placenta.

Sorry to rant i am going to have a few days off work and use some sick leave.

Holy cow, i can understand your rant to DH, as i am sure he can too. You are being very good about all of this and you are allowed a moment every now and then! Hope that you can access that super, i didnt even know you can do that! Im sure we can come up with a baby sit for you if need be! Calm calm calm ferrals, you and the baby are much too important for this $hit at the moment!



AFM: New car is great, thank you ladies! Its huge and i havent given it a go parking but driving was nice. We have gone from petrol to desel so just had to get my head around all that! Really dont have the brain power at the moment and the kids are so excited that are yelling out about a million things at once. DH can drive for the minute
Car seat is in but i dont think baby is ever going to come. How unfair that my 4th is planning on being the one i cook the longest, when my body is at its worse. But i am glad the baby is happy in there, hopefully putting on some much needed weight.
Oh who asked? Its a Hyundai I-MAX.

Sorry for my rant, just sore and over it today!

[T-hopes]

Oh im so bored.... 2nd last day of work and Im and pulling my hair out with boredom!!

Im the only person in the entire complex seriously! The phone has rang twice! Why the heck do i need to be here!?!?! Get me outta here.... 2.5hrs to go!! Im going nuts ppl!!!! Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr! I have so much to do b4 Christmas and im a prisoner to this joint! Grrrr!

[Tegam]

Thopes!! I can hear the echo from here!

[T-hopes]

hahahha! I have googled everything possible, read the paper, done my work (most importantly ) read my mags, called my mum, called DH.... oh im going insane ................... maybe i could have a little nap.......... 2hr 12mins to go... tick tock tick tick

[Tegam]

Like how you have googled, read the paper and THEN mention your work!

[T-hopes]

Of course!! Priorities Tegam!!