Sunshine and stars-I feel the same way i feel like i am pretending to be pregnant and i dont want people to see my belly but we need to see our babies as babies and giving them a name makes it real and if something did happen (cross fingers it never does) that is your baby and he will have a name weather it be now or when he arrives i am glad we gave Abbi a name she is our daughter and deserves to be part of our family even though she is not here with us she will always be in our hearts.

Thanks girls i cant believe they have kept me waiting WELL! actually i can i told you my luck sux i did not sleep at all last night i am still really crook with this flu and i had major cramping from all the coughing so i feel like crap and i can tell you now if i have not heard from the geneticist by 12 i will be on the phone barking at him to get me a result before the weekend starts ( even though i have no voice i will give it a good go)