I have 2 healthy children, a boy 16 and a girl 9! I am 35..

On December 10, 2009 I had a D&C due to a blighted ovum, I was 13 1/2 weeks

I still cannot make sense of it, I was already beginning to show! I would lay awake at night and talk to my belly, so many plans and dreams all gone! The love you already feel!

No one around me including my husband seems to understand it!

My husband has no children of his own, this was to be his first! He wants to try again right away, I am terrified! and his lack of emotion with this loss is not to encouraging.

He says everything happens for a reason and we will have a baby.

I barely held it together with this tragedy and I do not think I could go through it again, it was such a complete shock! I never even heard of a blighted ovum until I was told I have one.