michelle

congratulations on your pregancy and try and relax, believe me i know its hard.

with my very first pregancy back in 1997 it was discovered at 11wks that i had a blighted ovum, i went onto have a d&c and then 8mths later we conceived our dd jessica.

after my m/c my ob/gyn suggested that i see him for a scan at around 6wks with my next pregancy and i remember like it was yesterday sitting on our bed at home sobbing to my dh that i didn't want to go and get a scan that day, because i didn't want to see on the screen nothing like the last time, he pulled me together and we went and there it was the sweetest thing ever a little heartbeat going strong.

i am sorry i can't really answer your question but only to offer you, of my experience and to let you know you are in my thoughts.

good luck - when are you going for a scan??