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thread: Trying to be positive...

  1. #1
    Registered User

    Mar 2007
    954

    Trying to be positive...

    I am 6 weeks and 2 days pg. With both my boys I was very very sick by 5w5d. This time, and in my last m/c I was completely well. No m/s at all. I know its early and every pg is different, but I really am scared it is another m/c. It will be my third in a row if it is

  2. #2

    Dec 2010
    Victoria
    1,108

    please dont think negatively.. everything will be fine..


    CONGRATULATIONS!!!!

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Nov 2007
    Off with the fairies.
    4,370

    I'm crossing everything for you and sending truck loads of sticky vibes your way.


    Congratulations!!!

    xox

  4. #4
    Registered User

    Oct 2008
    675

    Oh hun I am thinking of you, I am sending you lots and lots of sticky vibes (and some non-HG vibes as well)...x

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Nov 2009
    Vic
    1,292

    Congratulations on being pg!!!!!

    Maybe this pg is different because its a girl

    All you can do is have hope and be positive

    Thinking of you and sending lots and loads and tonnes of sticky vibes

  6. #6
    Registered User

    Jul 2006
    Melbourne
    4,895

    Congratulations on your pg!

    It is certainly a tough time to try to be upbeat when you have had difficulties in the past. Try to enjoy your pg in the moment it is. GL

  7. #7
    Registered User

    Sep 2008
    Sydney
    1,413

    I know it is very hard to be positive when you are just soooo scared!! I wish you all the best and hope you have a sticky bub that is just being nice to its mumma not making you sick!

  8. #8
    Registered User

    Oct 2007
    Sydney
    503

    Congrats DG! Sending you positive and sticky vibes.

  9. #9

    Mar 2008
    Where dreams are now reality
    2,318

    DG such wonderful news and I know its terrifying at the same time. Stay strong, sending you a bucket of sticky vibes

  10. #10
    Registered User

    Jul 2010
    Rural NSW near ACT
    413

    I'm sending sticky vibes to you. I am 26 weeks pg after losing my daughter at 41 weeks. I am celebrating that this pg feels even a tiny bit different.

  11. #11
    Registered User

    Jan 2008
    Central Coast NSW
    2,160

    Sending sticky vibes. I thinks it's normal to analyze every symptom, especially after loss. I know I do

  12. #12
    Registered User

    Mar 2007
    954

    Thanks ladies, you have brought a tear to my eye. I will try to enjoy every second, but I guess when youve lost two in a row its just hard not to be worried.

  13. #13
    Registered User

    Jul 2008
    Home with my Son :)
    2,611

    I get that too. I have been pregnant twice 1 m/c 1 neonatal loss of my twins and I am so scared. Sometimes I'm really positive and think, this can't happen again, but then I think, well, none of my pregnancies have resulted in a take home baby before. What I am trying to do, is what everyone else said. I'm pregnant today and I'm loving the fact that I'm pregnant today. 1 day at a time and celebrate the small milestones. Mine was 6wks because thats when I lost my 1st. Then it will be 12wks, then it will be in 2wk increments, from scan to scan, then 24wks, then 2 week increments again til I take home my baby...

    Congratulations on your pregnancy!!!!! Lots of sticky vibes your way!!!

  14. #14
    Registered User

    Nov 2008
    U.S.A
    1,459

    Diamond Girl- I am in the same boat as you. I am 5 weeks and 1 day pg..but not nausea. BUT! that doesnt mean anything because every PG is different. I also have had two m/s and with the last one I was nauseaous..and m/c two days later. Try not to think about it. I know that is hard to say because I am the same way but..these are the couple of weeks we just need to lay low and accept what will happen will happen. Just remember if we do m/c it was not our fault..we didnt do anything for it too happen..it was just meant to be. Do you have a scan booked? Mine is booked June 13th...so FX for both of us

  15. #15
    Registered User

    Apr 2010
    422

    With both my boys I was spewing before I could even pick it up on a pregnancy test. But with dd I had very little nausea at all. And none for the first 8 weeks.

    Sending you sticky vibes

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  16. #16
    Registered User

    Mar 2007
    954

    Thanks everyone. I have a scan booked in two weeks time. I dont think it will ease my worries though because I heard a healthy heart beat at 8.5w last time and yet the baby passed two weeks later. I will try be positive though!

    BAL - I cant even imagine how it must be for you. I think enjoying each day is the key, and not worrying about tomorrow. I am praying that you get to take home your little miracle baby, which Im sure you will.

    Stick baby, please stick!

  17. #17
    Registered User

    Oct 2008
    brisbane australia
    840

    dont stress! i was terribly ill with my miscarriages and with my son but this pregnancy I was fine and thought hey maybe I'll avoid it this time, well when 7 weeks hit I had to take 2 months off work so every pregnancy IS different!

  18. #18
    BellyBelly Member

    Mar 2009
    1,385

    Every pregnancy really is different! I have had 4 m/c's, some with m/s some without. I have had 2 bubs and PG with #3 and each pregnancy has been completely different. Bad m/s with #1, moderate with #2 and hardly anything with this one. This pregnancy was showing all the signs of failing but here I am at 30 weeks. I know how hard it is to remain positive but remember that you're pregnant until proven otherwise!
    Wishing you all the best.. Hope you have a h&h 8 months!

    Congratulations! x

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