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  1. #1
    Registered User

    Mar 2007
    954

    Trying to be positive...

    I am 6 weeks and 2 days pg. With both my boys I was very very sick by 5w5d. This time, and in my last m/c I was completely well. No m/s at all. I know its early and every pg is different, but I really am scared it is another m/c. It will be my third in a row if it is

  2. #2

    Dec 2010
    Victoria
    1,108

    please dont think negatively.. everything will be fine..


    CONGRATULATIONS!!!!

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Nov 2007
    Off with the fairies.
    4,370

    I'm crossing everything for you and sending truck loads of sticky vibes your way.


    Congratulations!!!

    xox

  4. #4
    Registered User

    Oct 2008
    675

    Oh hun I am thinking of you, I am sending you lots and lots of sticky vibes (and some non-HG vibes as well)...x

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Nov 2009
    Vic
    1,292

    Congratulations on being pg!!!!!

    Maybe this pg is different because its a girl

    All you can do is have hope and be positive

    Thinking of you and sending lots and loads and tonnes of sticky vibes

  6. #6
    Registered User

    Jul 2006
    Melbourne
    4,895

    Congratulations on your pg!

    It is certainly a tough time to try to be upbeat when you have had difficulties in the past. Try to enjoy your pg in the moment it is. GL

  7. #7
    Registered User

    Jan 2008
    Central Coast NSW
    2,160

    Sending sticky vibes. I thinks it's normal to analyze every symptom, especially after loss. I know I do

  8. #8
    Registered User

    Mar 2007
    954

    Thanks ladies, you have brought a tear to my eye. I will try to enjoy every second, but I guess when youve lost two in a row its just hard not to be worried.

  9. #9
    Registered User

    Jul 2008
    Home with my Son :)
    2,611

    I get that too. I have been pregnant twice 1 m/c 1 neonatal loss of my twins and I am so scared. Sometimes I'm really positive and think, this can't happen again, but then I think, well, none of my pregnancies have resulted in a take home baby before. What I am trying to do, is what everyone else said. I'm pregnant today and I'm loving the fact that I'm pregnant today. 1 day at a time and celebrate the small milestones. Mine was 6wks because thats when I lost my 1st. Then it will be 12wks, then it will be in 2wk increments, from scan to scan, then 24wks, then 2 week increments again til I take home my baby...

    Congratulations on your pregnancy!!!!! Lots of sticky vibes your way!!!

  10. #10
    Registered User

    Nov 2008
    U.S.A
    1,459

    Diamond Girl- I am in the same boat as you. I am 5 weeks and 1 day pg..but not nausea. BUT! that doesnt mean anything because every PG is different. I also have had two m/s and with the last one I was nauseaous..and m/c two days later. Try not to think about it. I know that is hard to say because I am the same way but..these are the couple of weeks we just need to lay low and accept what will happen will happen. Just remember if we do m/c it was not our fault..we didnt do anything for it too happen..it was just meant to be. Do you have a scan booked? Mine is booked June 13th...so FX for both of us

  11. #11
    Registered User

    Apr 2010
    422

    With both my boys I was spewing before I could even pick it up on a pregnancy test. But with dd I had very little nausea at all. And none for the first 8 weeks.

    Sending you sticky vibes

    Sent from my HTC Desire using Tapatalk

  12. #12
    Registered User

    Mar 2007
    954

    Thanks everyone. I have a scan booked in two weeks time. I dont think it will ease my worries though because I heard a healthy heart beat at 8.5w last time and yet the baby passed two weeks later. I will try be positive though!

    BAL - I cant even imagine how it must be for you. I think enjoying each day is the key, and not worrying about tomorrow. I am praying that you get to take home your little miracle baby, which Im sure you will.

    Stick baby, please stick!

  13. #13
    Registered User

    Oct 2008
    brisbane australia
    840

    dont stress! i was terribly ill with my miscarriages and with my son but this pregnancy I was fine and thought hey maybe I'll avoid it this time, well when 7 weeks hit I had to take 2 months off work so every pregnancy IS different!

  14. #14
    BellyBelly Member

    Mar 2009
    1,385

    Every pregnancy really is different! I have had 4 m/c's, some with m/s some without. I have had 2 bubs and PG with #3 and each pregnancy has been completely different. Bad m/s with #1, moderate with #2 and hardly anything with this one. This pregnancy was showing all the signs of failing but here I am at 30 weeks. I know how hard it is to remain positive but remember that you're pregnant until proven otherwise!
    Wishing you all the best.. Hope you have a h&h 8 months!

    Congratulations! x

  15. #15
    2014 BellyBelly RAK Recipient.

    Dec 2008
    Melbourne, VIC
    4,637

    Congrats on your pg hun!! I know it's so easy to say 'don't worry' when you're not the person who is pg and who has had the m/c before, so that alone warrants lots of stress
    and worry, but I'm wishing you a truck load of sticky vibes for the reminder of your pg. GL hun!! And like everyone has already said, every pg is different so you might just have different symptoms than before. Or m/s will hit you like a tone of bricks soon and you'll be like, go away!!!!!!! hehehe.

  16. #16
    Registered User

    Mar 2007
    954

    Well, looks like I spoke too soon. M/s has well and truly arrived as of yesterday. Im hoping this means its a sticky one.

    Thanks for all your support. It means the world to me.

  17. #17
    Registered User

    Apr 2010
    Townsville
    2,832

    Yay for ms!!!!
    Praying tbis bub is very comfy in there and is a sticky!!!!


    Sent from my iPhone so sorry for the spelling and punctuation!!

  18. #18

    Mar 2008
    Where dreams are now reality
    2,318

    Hope it stays at m/s DG and doesnt end up as HG, hun Sticky vibes to you!!!

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