Hugs hun.
I know exactly where you are coming from and TBH I never felt 100% safe at all. When DD started kicking I felt better about it all - then they have a quiet day and the worry would creep back in.

I just tried to relax (yeah right!!) and enjoy as much as I could - but when DD was in my arms I felt better... then the "other" sets of worry start!

Try and embrace your preg and try and relax..Its hard I know.

xox