Hi all,

I'm pregnant again after too too many late losses. I can really relate to what everyone here is going through - I feel a bit like I'm missing out on 'enjoying' the pregnancy because I'm busy being paranoid about every little muscle twitch, and Googling all the medications I have to take to see if they have been "proven" to prevent it happening again. I don't have five worries - just one: that I'll lose this little bub. So far I've made it to the 6 week scan, the 7 week scan, the 8 week scan, the 9 week scan... so far so good. I'm also on some medications that will apparently make my chances better (wish they had worked that out earlier).

I think that only another pregnant woman who has experienced miscarriage/s can understand the level of paranoia we are all experiencing. That must be why these forums work

Top 5 worries:

(1) That the next ultrasound will show no hb.
(2) That there will be some issue with my cervix and I'll have a late loss.
(3) Every little muscle spasm or tiny cramp (which can, Podgy, be normal - my obstetrician told me some cramping is ok as long as it's not regular or strong and not accompanied by bleeding)
(4) That after I stop the progesterone something will go wrong and my body won't make enough or something
(5) That me or the bub will get some kind of haemorrhage (I'm on heparin)

GOOD LUCK ladies. I hope your bubs stick, and that your worries are unfounded ;0