Jordie

Can totally relate to how you are feeling. Because DS was 2.5 years in the making it was such overwhelming joy when we found out we were expecting and of course every experience was new and a surprise and we were carried away with the emotion of all of that.

This time I'm an "old hand", know what to expect and when. Also it doesn't help that I work, have an active toddler to look after, buying and selling a house AND having a baby. TBH until the baby started to kick and I saw her on the screen I didn't even start to bond with her.

Do I feel guilty? Sort of but I know that come August she will be the centre of my world so I am just making time for everything else at the moment.

Just make sure you take a lot photos of bubs (second children always seem to miss out). LOL