I'm pregnant with my first baby and I already have planned to not have another kid straight after this one, I'm scared of not being able to cop. I've seen mothers who had kids within months or a year after their other kid and are struggling and can see how they can't give their full attention and care to each child cause they just dont have the time and/or are tired and exhausted. I think i need a few years after my first child to be ready for another, my husband tells me the same. We both believe that its better to just have one kid and give them all the attention and care they need then have 5 kids all one after the other and so close in age and not being able to cop with raising them all. But we say this now before having any kids yet, we might change our minds after we have our child and end up with 10 kids hehehe