I think it is just going to do your head in over analysing your symptoms. Is there anyway you could get a referral to find out either way even though it's a pain? Did the scan place keep a copy of the scans images that you could ask to see?
I agree! Its DH that doesn't believe it - not me. I just want to deal with the fact that its not the gender I particularly wanted, and move on to acceptance. DH has put this little seed of doubt in my mind though.. arghhh.

I doubt we could get a copy - its through the hospital? I've never had to go through a hospital for scans though, so I dont' really know.

DH thinks that just because he didn't see the penis, doesn't mean its not there. And since he's said that - its all I can bloody think about!! arghh.