Mel, my 1st and 3rd pgs were identical in terms of how I was feeling, the symptoms I had and a few other things, but 1 was a boy and 3 was a girl. I was erring on the side of having another boy too, but nope, she was a she. If getting another scan if going to be too hard for you, I'd juts try to come to terms with bubs being a girl for now, but hold off on buying anything JIC she does end up being a boy