Hi Beth, I have posted a response to your questions in General Conception.

Thanks everyone for your responses, the advice is great and I will print it out to use. BTW I have put on 5kgs and my weight is normal.

Also forgot to mention, one of the people is a fitness fanatic and the other is overweight. The fitness fanatic won't let the other person have ice cream in her iced coffee because he is obsessed with her weight. Seems like they have the problem anyway. One of them is on leave today and I will speak to them tomorrow.

Thanks again for the advice, much appreciated.