Like TL :hugs: you poor love. It is scary and I have had 3 bleeds this go. Apparently it is 'normal' but as the mum it mkaes it none the less frightening.
However I so understand that you felt more strongly about your son. Just rescently I had a placental abruption (lift of the placenta) at 25 weeks. This was fairly serious, but my husband got quite cross when all I was concerned about was the welfare of my 2 year old.
Glad all is well with you.