it goes both ways though. I got so peeved because everyone was saying "so lucky with one of each" when i said i was having a boy. so many people said it in the one day that when yet ANOTHER random stranger asked I said "i'm having a puppy". it ****es me off that people have to comment when so many couples have issues conceiving/carrying a child in the first place.

Oops, sory for the mini rant