I have only been feeling "definate" movements the past 2 weeks, but can sometimes be irregular like feeling them in the moning, going all the rest of the day without feeling some, and then heaps in the space of an hour at night and then none again. When i panick myself i always go to what i now call my 'reassuring chair'. When ever i sit on my chair in the study at the computer i feel kicks within 20mins. Dont know what it is about the chair - but its become a favourite of mine lately!!

I am a size 16-18 and thought that this was the reason i wasnt feeling them any earlier than 20wks as i presumed that there was more room and more 'movement detection barriers: i.e fat that were making things difficult. DH still hasnt been able to feel them!