Hey Anna, My partner Joel is in 1CER here in Darwin, he is an engineer and is about to got over to the Solomons on Friday for a week. I hate it when he is away but it won't be for long. I'm just glad that he won't miss my scan on Thurs. He is also going on a underwater dems cse in April next yr.

In regards to your predicament I would go with what my head was telling me. If it is going to help you out financially, that can't be a bad thing with another bubba on the way. Sure, you will miss your husband but like you said the Army will fly him to see you, and you family is there in Syd so it's not like you won't have their support if something was to go on with your pregnancy. When ever I go against my gut feeling I ALWAYS wish I hadn't.
Well I hope that helped you a little bit.