It definatly is scary to watch on the screen... ive actually been advised to quit work - i am a nanny and job involved alot of bending, straining, lifting and pushing etc... i quit last week and that actually made me feel alot better knowing i could properly rest my body..
We find out tomorrow what were having- im sooooooooo excited- DH and I think (have "that" feeling) were having a girl.. we'll soon find out!! We have done the BD twice since finding out... at first i was much like you and didnt want too.. but the doctors said gentle is fine ..... eventually i trusted them.. we need to remember our DH matters too right ! its hard i know! ive been consumed with all things pregnancy and especially with this lake ive wrapped myself up in cotton wool... and thats fine BUT i need to remember lovely DH is sitting on the sidelines watching all this happen with no way to help... ive tried making more of an effort to realise that this week..

i havent had the "hot" feeling... but perhaps thats what it is!? ill have alot more info for you tomorrow