every 4 week ultrasounds just because I'm fat :0)

[Lolpigs]

Just tell him to stop weighing you unless there is a medical reason. Your right to choose in my opinion.

Poor thing

[delphmoon]

He is an arrogant a$$hole...no doubt he would make a snide remark if I refused...arrgg

[Beach Mama]

Are there other obs or do you always see the same one? I had one ob when I was pg with JJ who I refused to see again because she was a noob. Just because you are public doesn't mean you don't have choices but if you are working there too I can see that you would have to be a bit careful xoxo

[WannabeMum]

It's a hard thing to do - make a complaint that is. Do you have a good GP you can talk to? Perhaps your GP could give your Ob a call to discuss your emotional health and how the constant weighing and discussing weight is not helping your pregnancy. Alternatively if you felt comfortable, you could talk with your Ob about it. It's not on, and it's not fair. If you get nowhere, it's worth asking for a change in Ob - as someone said, just because it's public, doesn't mean you have no choices!

[WannabeMum]

Oh, and hell no! I know how much I weigh, but I don't want DH knowing that! He's allowed to know I'm overweight (he's not stupid), but the details are mine. Same goes his way (not that he's big or anything), I don't know how much he weighs and I accept that. Oh I hope you get some joy at the hospital. At the very least, you are growing a wonderful, happy, healthy human who has a lovely Mum who is full of love and joy for the baby. You, your DH and your DD are going to welcome Cookie to the family and say "go stick your head up a dead bear's bum" (that one's courtesy of my Dad who had a strange turn of phrase...) to whomever tries to rain on your parade!