We had our 18 week u/s on Tues and are still left guessing about the baby/s gender. My Dh didnt want to know and I think the radiologist agreed with him. He basically said, it was easy to tell if it was a boy, but couldnt see a willy. Does this mean a girl??? I have found out with all my kids(all right) but always had a feeling about the sex. This time Im not sure. This pregnancy has been really risky so I guess I havent thought about it much. Just focusing on getting thru each day. The baby is healthy and doing well so we are happy.