It is a lot to take in the first time hey. What book are you reading? It doesn't sound particularly reassuring, perhaps as the others have said put it aside for now.

As for what you need? Nothing you can't buy once you realise you need it. xo Think of babies in third world countries - obviously that's not our standard, but it helps you realise that lots of 'necessities' are actually just conveniences.

There are plenty of lists around BB (try searching), and maybe check out the articles section too - and if you can't find what you're after, then ask away!