DH and I aren't finding out, and are happy about that - we want the surprise! DH originally wanted to find out, but when I pointed out about the "surprise" factor on the day he was happy with that. "It's a baby!" isn't a surprise - I mean, after labour you should know you've had a baby!
But some people don't like the wait - I can understand that, although I'm lucky that my DH wants to wait too now; I couldn't have him know and me not!
i didn't find out with either of my 3, but i have this time, although i am keeping it to myself. i found out for practical reasons as bubs is due dec 27th and i have to be organised should it come early, my worst nightmare is going into labour christmas eve, bubs born before santa comes and santa not leaving he/she any pressies.
But i actually wish i hadn't found out, i like the surprise at the end and now i feel like i've been cheated out of it, but i'm sure that will change when i go shopping for those blue or pink things.
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