Ren, there are many people that deal with gender disappointment on a daily basis - say having 3 girls already & desperately wanting a boy. Imagine finally being told you're having a boy to find out it's actually a girl in that circumstance?? It's a tough thing to deal with I imagine. Of course you're happy to have a baby, but to think you've finally got the sex you've longed for then to have the rug pulled out from under you so to speak, I can imagine it would be very difficult.