I loved it when bump finaly started moving...everyone kept telling me that I would be ale to finger and actually try to figure out if THAT lump was a foot or a knee - NEVER happened! lol felt so ripped off! But I just wasnt big enough - the skin didnt stretch that far!
I could definately see he moving on the outside though...id lie there and all of a sudden my the big lump would move from one side to the other and back again and DF would FREAK out! lol so cool.

Back to the point thogh! That was around 6 months i think, and it obviously just gets more intense for the rest of the pregnancy (but I spose it is one of those things that is individual to each woman...?)
Good luck!

PS - the best thing about them kicking out though is if you snuggle up to DPs back when she's kicking...lol Used to get DF all the time! hehehe