Hello all

I am having my 20 week scan in just over an hour and up until now had decided that I was definitely not finding out the sex of the baby. I have two boys and would dearly love a girl so I my thinking behind not finding out was that if it is a boy it could potentially make the rest of the pregnancy go very very slowly and I could spend the next twenty odd weeks feeling sorry for myself.

Well now that the scan date is here I am wavering - should I find out the sex or not? If it is a boy I know I will be upset so is is better not to know or do you think I need the time to adjust and get used to the fact?

HELP - this is driving me crazy. I cant think of anything else!!!

Hope this doesnt sound bad.

Thanks
Jem