I found out with my second only because i wanted to be prepared clothes wise with colours etc. Im glad i did because i needed to buy a few things to make the boy feel like a boy and not a girl with all the girlie things i had already. Im not finding out with this one and thats only because i have everything and id like surprise this time.

I think if Jay had been a girl then i would of found out what i was haveing now and that would be purely to be organised.

Go with your gut i reackon.