I know how you feel mrzbaby. I am almost 17weeks and still havent told anyone yet.
My brother and SIL have just (2weeks ago) had their much longed for IVF baby girl.
When we announced I was expecting number 4 it kinda caused a "blip" in our relationship with them. Gradually things got better, but during my pregnancy with him I felt as if I was doing something wrong< I know I wasnt and it was jealously but we pretty much stayed away from them and vice versa.
They are just fine with him now and with my other boys too but we decided to let them have their moment and warm fuzzies before we announced number 5 is on the way.
Trouble is I still dont know how to do it. Have I waited too long now and I am worried about how they are going to react this time. Knowing what they had to go through and here I am breeding like a gremlin after a bath!!!
Sorry to hijack but any ideas??