to DF: *WAVE PEE STICK IN FACE* Loooooooooooooookk!!!

To Mum & Dad: I actually told them seperately... Mum went into overdrive about some herbs I'd been taking that you're not meant to while pregnant, so I had to explain to her that I had actually stopped taking them... after that she offered to babysit ><; Dad is a pretty "oh yeah" kind of guy so he was easy to handle to.

IL: DF told them by text message, resulting in OMG phone calls...

I think the longer you don't tell them the harder it will be. And either way it's going to hurt your SIL a bit... Hell my SIL announced she was preg about 3 months after we did and I STILL found that hard to handle because I was petrafied something was going to happen to my baby, and I'd have to watch her have her fourth while I went through losing another one.

GL, I know it's hard but think quick like a bandaid and remember you have your DH for support, Always remember to keep in mind what it would be like to be in the receiving end but also that this baby is your little miricle - who cares what other people are gonna think! I think the shirts may be a bit to "I'm rubbing it in your face" IMO, I'd give them a miss