Puppies I am on the same page as you.
Mum has never been very maternal. My big sis has 2 kiddies and at the time seeing her with them thought that maybe she was not ready to be a nanna yet.

10 years later I am pg with her 3rd grandchild and whilst she asks how I am feeling I had to ask her if she wanted to look at my scan pics where I know most mums would be begging to see them.

Mum had alot of pregancy problems so I don't know if this may have something to do with it. It is just frustrating and leaves me a lttle bitter to be honest!

Anyway, glad someone else is in the same boat, even if its a tough one to be in!