Yeah, janet, you could be right too.

I kept being told by people my ankles were enormous - oh, pish posh.

Now I see photos and freak out. I had elephant ankles. What was I thinking?

So, you're own perceptions are a little altered some times. I still think calling anyone "fatty" is really crossing the line though. If it's a nice comment - than great. But if it's derogatory, they can go jump.