Hey hun - i am soooooooo hearing you! I am 19 weeks as well, and massive. I have been obviously pregnant since about 7 weeks. Had my ultrasound the other day and even the lady that took it couldnt get over the size of me - she thought i was there for my 28 week scan!

I am beyong being polite now - if people i dont know say something i flat out lie and tell them i am further along, so my size seems more normal to them.

But i was getting it alot in the office - so last week i responded with a perfectly executed dirty look or evil eye, followed by a "hows fu*K off sound" probably not the most mature way to handle things - but worked a treat!! neadless to say - no more comments from work collegues!

the other one i am sick to death of hearing is how fat my arse is now! hmmm thanks for pointing that out! i cant see it - so i actually wasnt awear that i now have something else to be upset about!

although my cousin didnt get such a good reaction either as i pointed out - well i am pregnant - whats your excuse???

Its actually surprising how much attitude i can get away with at the moment! Not too many people are willing to take on a pregnant lady!!!