Im doing okay but also like you in the sense that everyone says it will be okay but you just never know?? Im more of the understanding now that they cant help me really and only want more tests A) to cover themselves-we are going private. B) because ventriculomegaly is rare and this gives them the option to do further testing. and C) And to prepare themselves and not so much us?
Its also cost us a small fortune and we are really trying to watch our budget coming onto christmas, Its not that we arent worried/dont care its just if we keep having fornightly ultrasounds, MRIs and Torch screens we will be both broke and also worried from week to week. Its not a way to live when you are pregnant and its also a chain effect from me to Hubby who worries enough for the both of us really.
But like you its nice to find someone who isnt having a trouble free pregnancy and is also worried too. Im still really glad to be having my son I just am not taking it for granted like I guess you can sometimes without the reality check?
A very religious friend of mine was of a little help at the moment her words were "god wouldnt give you something you couldnt handle" at first I thought "you want a bet?" but after a few good kicks from my little fella I really did the questioning and thought well in other countries they dont have all this technology and they have perfect healthy babies all the time?
So on that note hopefully you are doing okay too and we both know where to find each other for a chat!!!!!
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